randomperson [#7]
damn ngl all of these dont even seem like red flags to me
an actual red flag: having too much friends of the opposite gender
why? i'm genuinely curious. i have a lot of female friends, but i dont go around cuddling and stuff. i just prefer talking to them over guys.
the only dif between a man, woman, or any other gender, is the body part. if you didnt know their body part, it wouldn't matter. if you like their personality and have fun around them, what's the problem?
if they're choosing to consistently hang out with them over you, regardless of the gender, that's not a good sign. if they're cuddling and like doing stuff they should be doing with you, i understand the concern and you have every right to be. but dont go asking them to stop being friends just because they're a dif gender