"but at the same time there is always a drone on your team who will die 16 times in laning phase and you'll just lose despite winning lane yourself"
Self report low elo.
If you are not playing on GM+ you can always carry a 4v5 game.
This is the beauty of MOBA, you can stomp even cheaters if you are smarter than them, i remember winning so many games where i was against a bot lane of Zeri + Lulu and both of them didn't took 1 single skill from our team the entire game.
My final KDA on that game? 10/0/7
In the end its just skill issue.