vlr users what is your biggest red flags in ppl

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Lucrix

for me personally, if my girl doesnt have good grammar/doesn't use the right to, too/there, their, they're, etc. it's a no go
also she has to type out the words in texts. "u" instead of you is such an ick ngl

it's such a simple thing and it really doesnt take that long to type out the word

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Average_NA_fan

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there so annoying i hate ppl with bad grammar

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Lucrix

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i hope you step on a lego
i hope you put on your sock the wrong way and you have to readjust it
i hope you have a small rock stuck in your shoe
i hope your both sides of your pillows are warm tonight
i hope you wake up late tomorrow and miss school/work
i hope it's 11:12 everytime you try to see the time wishing for 11:11
i hope you get bit by mosquitos on the soles of your feet, your ankles, and your palms, and hands.
i hope your charger stops working
i hope you start to say something important but forget it halfway through.

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goofyahh1447

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damn bro

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number2_cNed_fan

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all the ones are understandable but the 11:12 one is too far

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Lucrix

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i hate people with bad grammar😇

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number2_cNed_fan

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I will make sure to not misuse grammar near you.

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Lucrix

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Thanks so much, mr. number2_cNed_fan(I typed that all out <3).

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smthlikeyou11

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Hey where are your periods and capitals buddy!

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Lucrix

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wdym !

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prx_brina08

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y du sum of yo sentence dont have comma or period

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Zerphyr1

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I hope your whole family has a nice Christmas

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benjy

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using filters with photos and not funny ones goofy ones that are meant to cover your face or make u look better

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bronzil_enjoyer

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wow benjy 🐷

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benjy

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I know I’m inspirational 🐽

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bronzil_enjoyer

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benjy benjy fishy

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benjy

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M8 your pushing it now 😤

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bronzil_enjoyer

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https://youtu.be/7nnsvUiRJMw?si=eHn2aWD_I46vKvC3

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Pocket

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When people fart next to me. Idk why but it's so annoying

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kanyefan4238173

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probably racism or when she is wasteful of paper

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randomperson

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damn ngl all of these dont even seem like red flags to me
an actual red flag: having too much friends of the opposite gender

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spookmeister

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naw id understand if you said like, theyre uncomfortably close with a friend of the opposite gender, but “too many friends” is not it

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Lucrix

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why? i'm genuinely curious. i have a lot of female friends, but i dont go around cuddling and stuff. i just prefer talking to them over guys.

the only dif between a man, woman, or any other gender, is the body part. if you didnt know their body part, it wouldn't matter. if you like their personality and have fun around them, what's the problem?

if they're choosing to consistently hang out with them over you, regardless of the gender, that's not a good sign. if they're cuddling and like doing stuff they should be doing with you, i understand the concern and you have every right to be. but dont go asking them to stop being friends just because they're a dif gender

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nobody___100

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w take

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Lucrix

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icl i wish he responded so i could have an actual convo/debate over this

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randomperson

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yeah i understand what you are saying and agree
ngl i think im just biased bc of situations in my school cause i swear everytime there is a relationship and one of them have a lot of friends of the opposite gender it always ends so badly, i think this would only be more of a red flag in younger ages as i dont think this generation is very loyal.
i actually do have a gf who ik has multiple guy friends and im okay w that bc i trust her and i have quite a bit of female friends of my own

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Lucrix

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yeah i get where the fear comes from, but as long as you trust the other person, that's all that matters.

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randomperson

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yeah i trust my girl so its not really a red flag for me but more of a pattern i noticed in my school

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Hyssopus1

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You nailed it bro, this is the biggest red flag 100%

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TM06Nick

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This is a red flag when you're like 12 and don't know anything about the world

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RedFire

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not being able to properly communicate
especially when there's some sort of issue that could be fixed by communicating about it but they just... don't do it

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Lucrix

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oh fuck i totally forgot about communication. communication is honestly my number one thing i care about. im a serious overthinker and my ex was so closed off, i was constantly worrying cuz she would never respond

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RedFire

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I had the exact same issue, not a good time

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beaver_man

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Small titties

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Lucrix

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ratio for caring about that stuff. face/hair>>>>>

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alecksdesk

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ratio for caring about that stuff. thighs >>>>>>>>>>

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yaiima0

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Personality clears

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FrenchToast

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this is why we choose the bear

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yaiima0

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Bears clears men + women

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Kebone

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when she likes My Hero

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emirerays

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rly u too ? i too hate ppl with bad grammar

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babushka_boii95

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I havent spoken to a girl in a long time. I used to want to be friends with them till I figured out how scummy women can be. Not generalizing, but I experienced that and decided I had enough. I just want to be single and leave peacefully alone

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Cromawarrior48

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sen flair

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cartixuzi

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icl ion rly get ppl or smth like fym ur leaving for sm1 n shit so skibidi, did I fwu or nah and be fr

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Lucrix

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yep if she talks like this we're breaking up

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cartixuzi

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are you on the campaign to end slang

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daniellelele

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im in love with u

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Asuna_Yuuki

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Not intelligent

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nobody___100

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gen alpha slang. i don't care if its sarcasm or whatever, its just obnoxious

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swaggerlikejagger

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If theyre a wannabe tiktok/instagram influencer. If it’s YouTube then thats cool

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nobody___100

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youtube is the goat

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HenBabyH

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people who don’t suffer fools or allow others to make mistakes

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funny_prank

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This is quite ironic, considering you used for me and personally redundantly; in addition, your sentences lack capitalization. You also chose not to use periods in many instances where you should have. Furthermore, you refused to type out the phrase ‘not going to lie,’ instead opting for the abbreviation ‘ngl’ in the same sentence (fragment) in which you criticized the use of these abbreviations. Please reconsider these standards, as it appears that you do not follow them yourself.

Regards,
🤓☝️

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Lucrix

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Apologies funny_prank. I will now go fl1pzjder vs Bleed on icebox in real life.

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bronzil_enjoyer

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🗿

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lemondou

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I used to be like this but now I find it incredibly cute when a girl speaks shit grammar with confidence. Not the same with men though, I look down upon them

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Lucrix

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it's just so weird. you've been alive for at least 16 years, and you don't know the difference between to and too?

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nobody___100

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double standards?

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Sidyon

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If she's a vlr user usually that's a sign of something, just don't know what tho since I don't think female vlr users exist

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Botroretro

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too big boobas

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Aayan

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people who dont understand that disagreements are normal.
what actually constitutes a healthy relationship (for me) isn't the fact that you disagree in the first place, but on how you work together to try and see each others differences, even if it results in a boring 'agree to disagree'

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Lucrix

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realest shit ever

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seofps

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i can't agree more

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ALoKi007

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I am my biggest red flag.

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trembolonaRage

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girls that uses dating apps

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Lucrix

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you wouldn't know that unless you used it too..

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Kirya

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I cant stand stupid people

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Schneefeuer1

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being female (they scare me)

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DeyahAlAjarma

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honestly as long as she gives me hugs and cuddles im fine with anything

except fat bitches

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Lucrix

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cook icl

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BigmansFacialHair

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nah you wrong on most of it, id agree with the bad grammer part but if they text " u" its fine

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Lucrix

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well in most cases yes, but if it's like "i love u" or ily, that's kinda an ick

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randomperson

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i dont mind it
sometimes my gf texts me "i loveee uuuuuuuuu"

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Lucrix

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alr yeah that's dif

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0fcuZ

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Being lazy, having bad hygiene, being overweight, and terrible attitude.

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AltonBu02

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they play valorant

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Cheasle2

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Bad hygiene, hating school for the wrong reasons, and bad grammar.

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CanadaMan

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when they don't know that Assassins Creed Brotherhood is the best game in the franchise

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geospliced

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Empathy/Compassion.
It's a tough world for lots of people, and we're all going to face issues that are just unavoidable. I would not get together with someone who isn't willing to care/understand valid issues I'm going through. It's important that we support each other through the hardships and I don't think a relationship can happen between two people who aren't willing to do that.
Lack of love for oneself.
You need to know how to take care of and love yourself first before trying to love another.

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yaiima0

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Women that can’t accept being wrong. Idk but recently I’m noticing the trend of them always assuming they’re correct.

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Tryeue2

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but they are always right lmfao

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cioccolat

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Doesn't have an introspective hobby.
If all your hobbies involve the perception of others, that means you have no pleasure in yourself.
In introspective hobbies, the pleasure comes from the task, validation is a tip.

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sdgdfdrgdrfgdrgdrfttdhy

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holy shit go outside

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Lucrix

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?

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dieforfun

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being a vlr user

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rumbledink

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Lol as if any girls are into you

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Lucrix

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? i have a girlfriend lmfao

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hellfire

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parties
ego
caring about an outer "persona"
not being rich 🗣🗣

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Anoymouse

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the last one.

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2bored

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this may be applied to native speakers, i speak english as second language and everything i learned was from video games and movies so i dont know shit about grammar tbh and i couldnt care less

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vlr user

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unknown_trash

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If they do not treat others with fairness. I can overlook pretty much everything else but that. To be honest, that is quite a broad red flag, but it really rules out everything that would be a deal breaker for me.

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Lucrix

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yeah i feel like that goes without saying. be nice, treat others kindly, communicate with your s/o, etc. are like basic things that every person should be able to do. i was mainly asking about the smaller things.

edit: my gf for example, HATES when people chew loudly

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unknown_trash

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oh ok. i dont know if i have anything like that at the moment. but i am too young to really know at this point as a 17 year old.

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Lucrix

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im 17 too and thats all good. this wasnt meant to be anything deep so dw

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when they exist

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johnqtgoat

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when they breathe and dont like johnqt

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TooCaution_Heartless

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if i speak.....
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