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man what to do with my life

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i wanna watch professional valorant for a living like sliggy
i don't know what to do with my life
i have to choose a fucking major and choose a career path
it's so hard how are we expected to make decisions so early
man i wanna be a kid again
now I have to take responsibility of my life and my actions
im just a little boy man so much pressure
wanna escape by playing games
fuck this
any idea what I should with my life?
i just wanna be financially free and free enough to do things i like
there's just so much pressure man fuckkkkkk

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it's so easy to just choose med school and not think about anything, it's a really hard path but atleast it's s straightforward path which you follow without any pressure or confusion
WHAT TO DO MAN
CAN I WORK FOR SENTINELS??

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I did that and don't really regret it to so far (though I'm only in first year)🗿med school's difficulty is overstated, it's just a long path

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you're a doctor?? we're cooked no?

#61
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more like you're in good hands 🥱

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i trust you with my cancer

#3
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fuck sliggys so lucky, i wanna watch like he does.
he proyis financially free and has so much freedom in his life, sure he might have struggles too but it's so tempting fuckkkkkk

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welikefortniteandvalorant
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brotha he literally spends his whole life just watching valorant games, at one point (probably now already) its torture but he has to do it because its his profession

being a valorant streamer or player isnt all sunshine and rainbows like it seems

you gotta find out whats fun for you

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valorant is fun :)))))

#17
welikefortniteandvalorant
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me when i lie

#18
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atleast watching and when I play with friends it's fun, also it way of escaping so it's tempting and addictive

#24
welikefortniteandvalorant
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Well if its truly fun for you, thats great man
I escape in val because i dont do anything else in my life and im hungry to compete for ranks, but its not like i really have fun in the game

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im lowkey escaping too but I WANNA CHANGE it's just hard to change what ive been doing for last 3 years

#83
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bro thats so sad, you shouldnt play the game if u dont even have fun in it, theres so many other hobbies you can pursue

#88
welikefortniteandvalorant
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well i somewhat enjoy tapping peoples head but yeah its not like im really excited to hop on and i dont even have anybody to play with for fun...

just life man

#91
lxolotl
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bro thats sad

#32
love_trial
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bro he worked in a restaurant for years and grinded as an observer in cs (makes literally zero money)

everyone pushes through the listlessness to eventually find something for themself

#48
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damn. so much respect. deserves everything but I knew that everyone has struggles in their life, it's just so tempting to watch valorant all day and get paid handsomely.

#53
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id say he doesnt have that much freedom bcos even in the off season youre watching hours and hours of it at early hours bcos of time zones. respect to him for doing it even for T2 stuff etc but its not an easy transition. plus his opinion weights a bit more no offence lmao

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yeah, im aware of our differences. but i like watching valorant so I would consider doing that as what I want to do with full freedom. maybe someday.

#68
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absolutely agree. if you could start back from being younger and have some insane opportunities id love to be a caster or be like him too fr

#74
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he grinded cs for 10+ years to get to where he is

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#48

#4
Amexdxyz
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Gamble

#8
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serious please im crashing out because of anxiety. it's crazy just 500 years ago there was no pressure
it was just survive today, and continue
fuck out brain isn't developed to prioritize future
it's so hard rn

#13
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brother i promise you it was worse 500 years ago you would’ve had 3 kids with 3 different women and died of dysentery by now

#15
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physically hard, mentally so fucking easy it's not even comparable

#5
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extremely justifiable crashout this adult shit is wild

#6
bonkashi
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you're so real for this 1243

#7
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try going pro then try becoming a caster/watchparty nerd when you retire

#9
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lowkey just put your head down and grind

i’m gonna be a med school student (hopefully) in a couple years but after that i legit have no clue what im gonna do next so i’m just going with the flow until it hits me

in the meantime im just chilling

#14
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i wanna chill and grind but i have no path to grind, what to even grind
what after highschool
what fucking major
which college
applications and fucking anxiety about being accepted
family issues don't help

#21
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just choose a major you think will give you the most options, i chose biochem because it just has its foot in everything

as for a college, you can just apply for like 20 different colleges and the best one you get into you can just fullsend it there

after that just ride the wave and you’ll eventually make it out, that’s what i’ve been doing for the past 3 years of uni

#23
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be honest, is math+cs good?

#26
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cs major very valuable & math major makes you more selective so yes

#51
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i currently do cs + it, then math minor, u can't be watching valorant all day tho u need to lock in and grind with the competitiveness of the market

#54
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do you make self portfolios and projects to specialize and differentiate yourself from others or is everyone doing this now?
the job market is bad, but people say if you're good enough you'll get good opportunities

#55
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study chemical ez 😎

#59
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bro I'm not grinding that to get paid pennys and i won't even be free

#96
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self portfolio, yes, a website or just github page to showcase ur projects works as well, pretty much what i am doing.....also applying for internships right now, i've done one with a nonprofit so far and a summer research project where i presented at events and wrote a published paper.....i also do competitions, u don't have to go to this length but i really want to secure a placement at a good company

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Same man. I just wanna be 16 for few more years life was so fucking easy

#11
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start doing livestreams as a hobby while also continuing ur study

#19
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do I go for math + cs?? ik cs sucks but maybe I can start a company or something idk
i just wanna be financially free mannn and do things i like

#22
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What do you like doing in your free time? What are your favourite (not necessarily best) subjects in school?

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maths is my best subject
i like exploring math, and like deep deep math like partial differential equations and shit (really high for 16 year old and really unesscessary)
i get interested when I can increase my knowledge (i think subconsciously i wanna just be smarter than other people but I WANNA CHANGE)

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free time i like watching stuff like streams and valorant anime netflix, i like to gym i like to run, i played baseball but eh. don't do much more than maybe hangout with someone. that's basically my life rn and watching valorant included.

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You can start with that kinda thing. Take those subjects of interest and look into careers that prioritize that kinda thing. What you end up going into might not be the first thing you find, but you can go down a route of looking into things and get there eventually—so long as you have a starting point.

For me, I starting with my love of maps/street design and branched into city planning, then into transportation engineering, and now I have university offers for mechatronics. :)

#45
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mechatronics? what is that?
also classic example of how i gotta look forward and will be able to connect the dots only after I get past the struggle

#63
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In a nutshell, it's a hybrid of all four of mechanical/electric/computer/control engineering where the main thing you're generally working with is vehicles like cars and planes. It's kinda like robotics in a way

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cool. can I pair this with cs or something? looks really cool actually. double major or major/minor perhaps.
like any of your friends or people from your course, have they done something like a double major?

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I have two friends doing mechatronics, but one of them is transferring unis to do electrical engineering next year

Idk if you can pair this with comp sci specifically but a computer/mechatronics engineering double major could be something you might like

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thank you CLOUDBERRY. will look into this.

#84
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Np dude! Gl with your research :)

#25
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nah twin cs aint it

#39
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CS needs a lot of self discipline imo, if you think you can sit by yourself and learn things outside of your curriculum and make projects then go for it. otherwise I wouldn't suggest it. I'll also mention that since the job market for it is garbage nowadays you need to have good social abilities so you can network

you could also just be the average CS students who barely passes in university and ends up homeless 🗿

math by itself is completely garbage, with CS I'm not sure how many more doors it'll open

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can you go like analyst or quant or something with maths? like a wall street job or something

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math is a very general major, for everything you learnt there's someone who took another major and learnt it in more detail so they're more fit for a job. so while you technically can become an analyst, there's people way more qualified than you as they took data science for example.

math is horrible and I wouldn't suggest it, everyone I know who has taken math regrets it. it's relatively difficult and doesn't pay off. the only time you'd get picked over people who took other more specific majors is if you're applying to become a teacher 💀. not to say that it's impossible to get other jobs like analyst, but it's very difficult

#66
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good insight. makes sense. maths probably is vague and I don't wanna be a teacher. what majors would you suggest for like the financial route?

#67
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I haven't done much research on them but from what I know, aside from accounting which has a clear career path and isn't ridiculously over-saturated, the rest (for example business management/economics/finance) usually require you to go for a masters afterwards, because way too many people have the bachelor so if you want to somewhat stand out you need to go for one.

#71
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actually good insight. thank you man. its good to hear from people with experience. makes sense thank you.

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yo guys I asked for career suggestions, it's not just a crahout
:(((((

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Firstly, extremely relatable post. Sometimes I wish I could go back to secondary school when all I could look forward to is going home, playing PS4 with my mates and watching my favourite YouTubers. Unfortunately, time does not go backwards and you have to embrace the future.

Figure out what you enjoy and what you're good at. If you're good at numbers, take up a numerical degree like Economics, CompSci, etc. If you're good at more verbally-written assignments, History or some sort of analytical field would be good. Then when it comes close to graduating, you should look at doing some internships, summers/weeks in a company to get experience so you can then apply it to the things you enjoy. And what you enjoy will always change so keep it close to you.

Being financially free is subjective to a certain extent, but if you have a good job (i.e.: you don't work retail or food services for the rest of your life), you will be mostly financially free. Though American educational debt is annoying, you will probably have enough income to enjoy things from time to time.

Now, Sliggy is indeed fortunate to be in the position he is in, but do not discount that he has worked hard to get where he is. He started off as a pro in CS:Source back in 2009 and was a coach in CSGO from 2015. Then he goes to Valorant and coaches pro teams until 2022. In basic terms, he has been working hard for a decade to maintain his presence in a volatile environment like the eSports market. He is now a streamer, but he didn't just sprout knowledge for the game. He has been consistently a thinker-type for years across games - and therefore, he has earned his comfort to stream Valorant pro games and get paid nicely for it. Bare in mind, he is also fairly new to streaming so he isn't raking in huge numbers, but he definitely gets a nice sum of money from his TL contract.

All-in-all, there is a lot of hard work you got to commit if you wanna be in Sliggy's position. And this goes for any high quality role, corporate or freelance. If you wanna be a streamer-analyst, start right now as a hobby to stream. Post your VODs or clips to all social medias. Build a brand and network with individuals.

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im good with math logic and numbers kinda, always been fast with calculations mentally and high level maths is fun to figure (extremely fucking hard when you get stuck for hours on end)
so I'm thinking maths+cs rn
maybe I'll start streaming when im in uni or when I'm done with it

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Great that you know what you're good at. Maths was also something I loved. As a degree, it might become something you hate since Pure Maths is the bane of any mathematician due to its abstract nature. But if you are good with coding and logic, CS is a nice degree. Very popular and competitive, but you're almost guaranteed a good job if you're proactive on projects. Plus it can provide an easier pathway into eSports than other disciplines. As for streaming, take my advice and do it sooner than later. If the burden of streaming cannot be balanced with studying, by all means put it on hold, but take the dive first rather than procrastinate it

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thank youu so muchh, ill read this post whenever I need some assurance.
ill try my hardest to start streaming as soon as possible, maybe cam less streams to start with
thank you. you don't know how much this assurance means to me even if it's online from a person i don't know.

#62
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It's no sweat. Whatever you're comfortable with, just try to get your feet on the ground with streaming and hopefully one thing leads to another.

#34
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also thank you for the thoughtful post, i guess I'll only connect the dots when I'm done with my life I just gotta move forward right now

#33
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For real bro. I’ve wanted to be a kid again since I was like 16 😒

#38
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im 16 and I wanna be 10. i legit had to do nothing, come home sleep, go play with friends, watch tv, eat dinner sleep, sleep all day on Sunday. fuck i wanna go back.

#40
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13 years old was peak of life

Playing football every day at school and after school before going home and playing Fortnite for the rest 🗿

#44
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man i wasnt even a gamer at that point, i was just a normal person. no attachments no connections, just immature friendships and 7th grade crushes.

#42
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I would recommend taking a career quiz like this one: https://bigfuture.collegeboard.org/career-search/career-quiz
or this one: https://www.princetonreview.com/quiz/career-quiz
or if you want an in depth one that's a little longer, which I personally recommend, take this one: https://www.careerexplorer.com/career-test/

And then after you see what it recommends, research a little about each career and see if you think its a good fit, then look for colleges or schools that have a good program for that career in state first and then look at a couple out of state. After that apply for the colleges/schools without worrying if you'll get accepted or not because you can always reapply. Also, make sure you also apply for a school that has like an 80% - 90% acceptance rate just in case you don't get accepted into your college of choice.

Also if you like math and want to be financially fine, I recommend something like investment banking, or maybe an Actuary, Software developer, or similar fields.

#49
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in my experience, career quiz kinda things don't work. i took a career counseling session once and they told me to take up law. who willingly wants to be A FUCKING LAWYER?
courts and fucking crimes and I know there are other types of lawyers but it's just not for me

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The third one is pretty highly rated, but I do understand where your coming from, after all I have tried quite a bit of them and a lot of them recommend stuff way to generally or stuff that your answer seem to suggest would be a good fit, but you have no interest actual interests in.

As for more career recommendations you could do something like ethical hacking, explosives engineer, fraud examiner (make sure you become certified because it pays more), personal financial advisor.

Also generally government jobs pay well, give a lot of vacation time, and many other benefits while also paying pretty good, and have good chances for raises and promotions.

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i like engineering and cs because maybe I have a chance to start something of my own. because i don't wanna slave away at a job for 40 years and do nothing for myself. i don't think I'd do that. id wanna quit within 5 years. also if do something of my own, hopefully ill get free time.
not into government jobs for that reason.
i will do jobs to start out though and get experience but eventually I think I'll do something of my own even if it's small. doing a job for 40 years is crazy to think about.
so some jobs you recommend kinda leave me no choice but do work for others. appreciate it though. thank you.

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Your pretty much locked into some kind of software/coding, or business job or some jobs like architect, or maybe real estate agent, there are a lot of things where you can get private contracts in engineering though.

#73
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yeah im leaning towards that, but it's oversaturated so kinda overthinking but I think I should be able to make it if I give it my all

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Yeah, sorry I couldn't really help, I'm not well informed enough on jobs where you can work for yourself to really recommend anything other than I already have.

#78
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you helped a lot don't worry, i got assurance from this post that I'm thinking in the right way. seems like it's a good choice if i work on myself and don't slack. thanks ALOT.

#43
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cs is a dead major gang

#46
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that's what im scared about. i don't know the insides though, people say if you're proactive and work on self projects and create s portfolio, you'll be good enough but idk

#60
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yeah if u wanna do cs you have to basically either have to tick a lot of boxes i.e (academic achievements, research, social networking, projects, relevant work experience/internships), or nepo your way in, but in general it's kinda just oversaturated. Not a safe career option realistically atm, but if you genuinely enjoy it, fuck it, follow your nose.

#64
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yeah i believe that if you're good enough and work hard, you'll succeed but it's just hard to vaguely roam around and not have a path to follow. i guess that's the hard part in life. figuring stuff out.

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if you're really into the high agency and freedom, you really just have to choose the path that makes you a lot of money early on, get your bag and dip.
math + cs -> quant job is kinda cool, but those are highly selective so you're gonna have to fullsend it like right now. place at an olympiad or something, do cool school projects or even research, get into a top 10 school for CS. Finance, accounting -> IB career is also neat, but highly competitive.

Just do whatever you want tbh, chasing a bag can get pretty exhausting if you don't have the right connections. If you're 1% in your field, no matter what that field is, you'll be fine.

#80
shesh_
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"dead major" with average 300k viewers smh people on vlr

#90
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lmfao

#97
destroylonely
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thats not true lmao stop fear mongering

this market is temporary, things will pullback and reset thats how it goes

#47
bronzil_enjoyer
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sadge 😿

#58
xineFso
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I have literally had a similar thought like this several days ago
Wish career ,jobs didn’t exist😢

#76
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if u wanna watch val for a living look at TMV
he started with like 10-20 subs but he kept making analytical vids on like gameplay and shit
and look where hes at now he got signed to acend but acend isnt an org anymore but thats somewhere

#81
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1) You'Il need a backup plan, so think about what you would work if valorant dont go well (what would you major on). Idk if your parents react well to that but take your time because thats a huge decision and you need to be sure. But ALWAYS have a backup plan
2) Do what you want as a "hobby"/side job. Is not going to give you anything for a long time, so just have fun with it. It's part having luck, part doing a good job. Just do what you can the best way you can and you will grow naturally
3) Remember three things: Time will pass anyway, so don't waste it and start when you want to. It's never late to start over, sometimes you make the wrong decision and you feel lost, and that's okay, you can rewind things. And have faith on yourself, because no one else will

I'm 21 finishing college and i still dont know what i wanna do with my life, but i'Il figure it out eventually, and things will get better. They always do. Just find your own footing and you'Il be fine

#85
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streaming is something ill start someday. but rn it's just what career path to take. but yeah thank you for this, really assuring post. makes me feel less anxious :)

#86
foythvlr
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Part of being young is finding your identity and your life. You will feel lost but you will find yourself again. Don't worry, and good luck <3

#87
StalwartTiger_35
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It starts with one, one thing, I don't know why
It doesn't even matter how hard you try
Keep that in mind, I designed this rhyme to explain in due time
All I know, time is a valuable thing
Watch it fly by as the pendulum swings
Watch it count down to the end of the day, the clock ticks life away

It's so unreal, didn't look out below
Watch the time go right out the window
Tryna hold on, d-didn't even know
I wasted it all just to watch you go
I kept everything inside and even though I tried, it all fell apart
What it meant to me will eventually be a memory of a time when

I tried so hard and got so far
But in the end, it doesn't even matter
I had to fall to lose it all
But in the end, it doesn't even matter

#92
nutab1e
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put the fries in the bag with all of sentinels

#93
Shadow_Monarch
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Invest.

#95
BonelessAvocados
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real

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