Something I like to think about often is this quote:
"If you are good at something, you will tell others. When you are great at something, they will tell you" if you really were GREAT at any of the things you said above, then you wouldn't be the one telling us about it. And if no one tells you that you are great at something, assume that you aren't because that's probably the case. I'm a very humble person irl but it always feels nice when people tell me I am good at something instead of boasting about what I am good at.
Edit: please target this message to @1243 instead. Mb I didn't get the reference as I'm not a vlr basement dweller so I miss a lot of threads that pop up here.