Fake world

Right now, i have literally 0 friends, 0 people who love me & 0 people who care about me.
But if i commit suicide tonight, all of my classmates & family members will be saying:
''He was so dear to me'''
'' He was so nice''
''He was my closest friend'' etc etc
But till you live, nobody gives a frick about you. This is the terrible reality of life. Atleast for me.

seek professional help, vlr isnt the place for these things.

Actually true. I am in a similar situation where I honestly wonder if I drop dead today would anyone apart from my parents and sister even care genuinely. They probably won't

so damn relatable

You can’t expect love from others if you don’t love yourself. Be better. You can and you must. Don’t let your past imprison you.

This is true for everyone! stop caring just enjoy life with things that are fun for u

If it's that bad, get tf off of vlr, it will only make things worse for you

If don’t allow yourself to open up to them and be vulnerable to them how you expect them to know what you are going through, let alone know you need help?

Have you talked to them about your problems? That is the first thing you need to do if you haven’t already.

I promise you even if the first 10 people you talk to turn away you will find one who cares enough to help. Don’t stop trying.

First of all y do u care what others think about you. You're parents, siblings love u and soon you will find perfect partner
Wait for it.

If you think people would feel that way about you after your passing that is because that is most likely how they truly feel about you when the walls people put up to protect themselves from emotional harm are down.

And if thats how they would feel about you just always remember that. They probably do care, people just are really bad at actually letting their true emotions show because of fear of letting themselves be vulnerable.

Bloody hell this guy never talked to his relatives and real friends or let me guess you never made one first learn to make real friends and then come and talk, world is fake and if you don’t care of yourself why the heck you want your class to care about you

friendship is a two way street, you need to reach out to people as well

Seek professional help my friend, it is never too late

look man there is someone that will be looking after you whether its your family or god

Boaster & I both care about u

Fnatic fans if Loud was 3-11 and made the comeback

Ghost22 sadly this is the truth most humans are there for your benefit and what you can bring a to social table, no one will probably ever love you for what you actually are, very rare if you do ever find friends that do keep them as close as you as possible those are the ones you should cherish the most. For those who you have to change your social attitude towards they truly aren't worth it you should aspire to be as real as possible never lose your true self while trying to seek friendship brother.

Human nature bruh ffs

only on vlr

Ok. Bro. Genuinely i say this to you and everyone here: make your own lane, work for yourself, do little things for yourself, take care of your health and mental state. Trust me, with a mentality change you will change your life for the better and genuine people WILL cross your path. I BEEN THERE and trust me, with a positive attitude and just focusing on your grind you will attract good things and people that will care abt you. Love yall, peace.

animals > humans

I've been there.
You need to get off VLR and talk to a professional. I'm not saying you have to go get a therapist and talk to your family and insurance. Literally just text 741741. It's free.
I'm sorry you're feeling this way, I know how it feels, but posting here is not going to make a difference.

In Japan, we are taught that spending time alone will bring us to higher level of strength as human being.
Here is a quote from famous work.

real and blackpilled

Truth is you have to get yourself out there and give yourself the opportunity to meet people who end up truly caring and fit you well. Even if that means you will make some bad experiences on your path its the only way to find what you need.

Chances are you are either stuck in a rut without motivation and drive to change things (potentially depression) or you are scared/have anxiety of what could go wrong or the unknown in general. Maybe youre just used to only do things you feel like doing instead of doing things you wouldnt naturally gravitate to without a specific goal in mind. All of these things are understandable and not something to be ashamed of.

One of the biggest lesson you can learn is that good things in life dont always just fall into your lap as you live through the same daily cycle. Sometimes it requires Initiative . You have to do something to get yourself towards a better life. Often times it feels much scarier than it needs to. Try to get yourself into situations where people are present with the goal of socializing . Preferably something where you can bond over shared interests to make the start easier. Be nice, dont be scared and be yourself.

And since it sounds like you might still be in school: Every time your life goes through a major shift (e.g. going to uni, getting a new job, moving cities) you get a new easy shot of running into something good.

Dont expect to strike gold immediately and get disheartened if it doesnt work. I mean it could easily happen but its no guarantee. It is a new way of living and thinking you need to adapt that bears fruit longterm.

You may get some "no"s, you wont mesh well with everybody and some of the things you do wont end up being a good time but that is okay. If you dont play you cant win and "losing" is often nothing more than a day you will forget some weeks later.

I can guarantee you that there are many people that would care about you a lot and you would likewise but you are hidden from them hard to be seen.

Edit: Some of this is guesswork. I obviously dont know much about your situation and other factors at play i might be missing but i wanted to pass on some of the lessons i learned on my path and i hope it is at least of some value to you.

Hope you're okay <3