I hate myself

I liked this guy for like over a year and then I came out as bi to him and it turns out he is homophobic af and now I think he hates me

if he's homophobic theres probably also other bad things

yeah honestly think you dodged a bullet

chin up

idk if this is the right thing to post on vlr but if he hates you for this he wasnt worth your time anyway fine ppl that actually apreciate you

just go next, you'll find one soon

dodged a bullet bud, if he's homophobic he's probably a lotta things as well

wow that’s pretty shitty of him to throw away a what he sees as a friendship because of your dating preferences, really awful that you have to find out like that, but in the long run you probably dodged a bullet.

don't hate yourself hate others instead

Jst an add on he said he is also rly disgusted by trans ppl and im non binary so Yh

It's not your fault don't worry. I'm sorry it had to happen this way but to be honest with you, y'all probably wouldn't work anyways since he is like that

all good bro shit happens

yeah I think he must be ascendant/low immortal

i think its sylvans fault.

u never noticed the homophobic in the 1+ year you befriended him? hope ur well, this could be a blessing in disguise :)

Expected the replies to be worse but im happy they arent

Dunno why you’d be upset by that? He’s trash. Though tbf not sure how you went a year not knowing he wasn’t attracted to the same gender unless they’re just like super reserved.

Fuck that motherfucker. Couldnt be more of a bitchass if he tried

Sorry to hear that bro, you dodged a bullet

Thanks for being supportive

I'm curious, what did you like about him in the first place?
was it looks? personality?

Im ngl man, if you live in SEA it's tough unless you're in Thailand. Most guys are homophobic by default unfortunately, gotta be careful to whom you come out to. Chin up tho bro.

sounds like a long-term W

there will be someone much better in your future

go next

ull find someone much better truss he seems like an ass anyways
u win some u lose some

I’ve come to the conclusion that he is human trash

All good go next bro much love

thanks for being nice

Why hate yourself? If he's genuinely homophobic then he's probably not a good person. I think it's fine for him to have his own beliefs and may not necessarily 'understand' or agree with it completely, but to me a friend will support you regardless.

If you come out to him (but didn't explicitly say you liked him) and he still acted like that and couldn't put aside beliefs/cultural differences to maintain a friendship then it's simply not worth it. You are who you are, don't change for something as novel as this.

why do u hate yourself? its something u cant just do anything about it ? u will find love...not immediatly but surely

i jst had a genius idea how abt i like subliminally convince him he is gay and if he likes me i reject him

at least you know who he really is. a piece of garbage

ofc the prx fan is gay

you will find someone so much better trust also its not your fault so dont hate yourself

Hot take: First don't hate urself it was just very unlucky and a lot of people here are right he isn't meant for you and you should must likely disconnect.
but all the people calling him trash and inferring he is a horrible person, I can't agree, cause all of them have to be either major internet users or lived in a culture accepting place.
How can you blame a person and call them horrible because their family, culture, beliefs, environment and friends all made them be homophobic?
is it right? No, but also assuming he is a horrible person and not a misguided person is just crazy, icl.

Please don't ever hate urself because of others, especially things you can't control, have a good day

Why would you hate yourself when he is right there, ready to be hated

If someone else is homophobic its them not you.

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i legit forgot there are females too on vlr

i think you should say bye bye (get it) to him anyways, if hes homophobic its a masive red flag ngl