how you get them? off a clearance or sum shit? I know for certain you did not get them by just being you. Shut up pussy
(From experience)
First of all, you don't find real love if you go looking for it. Love eventually comes to you. Try to be as interesting as possible, for ex. Have some hobbies. Try to first learn to be loved by yourself, focus on maybe your skincare or physical health, maybe get a fresh haircut, or go shopping for your own ideal style. Success comes through improvement. If you're trying to find someone with similar intrests, you should spend more time around the places you like. Making mistakes is fine, thats the only way you learn not to make them
Most importantly dont do a "fake it till you make it" scenario. Just try to build your own dream person out of yourself, and your dream partner will eventually come to you, sooner or later
I was in my local library scouting for a book to read, my intentions for going to the library wasn't to learn or get fascinated by fiction. My one and only purpose was to look for a girl. My 5"2 self brushed my hair back and wore my best Nike tracksuit. I spent 2 hours reading Peppa pig in the library but there was no luck, not a single woman looked at me that day apart from the 80 year old librarian. Went home and started smurfing in iron because I'm plat peak, found some mommy's but they were taken