i took this post down because i dont identify with what i wrote anymore
self-improvement is real guys
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Selling my pc is something which would fall very hard for me, i want to be a software engineer or do some type of comp science in the future so the computer is essential for me
Other than that youre right i have to interact in the real world but how, i want to meet new people and get friends but i just cant seem to find any
If you're in HS it's irrelevant. If ur in college/uni idk bruh just join clubs. Start going to the gym, most people in the gym are pretty friendly (and cringe so you'll fit right in). Anyone that says there dating life is fucked, just join a dating app and gg. There are some absolutely hideous people on there / straight whores.
make some new hobbies man, find some fun shit that encourages you to go out, socialize, and make friends
truth be told, it sucks that your life is as miserable as it is but nothings gonna change if you dont try to change it yourself. youre gonna have to advocate for yourself and regain some self confidence n then people will start to realize mayb itd be worth getting to know you. life is so much more meaningful when you encircle yourself with people that care abt u and are there for you when shit is tough.
but otherwise, hope u know that u arent truly a burden or useless or any of that bs, everyone has a place in this world and the potential to be p fuckin amazing.
gl out there dont give up jus yet buddy
unfortunately there is no restart but once you get the ball rolling I have faith that you can ride the momentum and make some major change.
it’s just the first step that’s the hardest, ik it sucks but it’ll all pay off.
you’ll find your place and your people in due time, just don’t grow complacent and strive to be better every day.
you’re loved and you have a purpose dont give up on us :)
you are misunderstanding his point. its not about what you can get out of it. its about how everything naturally falls into place when you have a purpose in life. when you have a purpose, you have direction, when you have direction, you take the necessary steps towards that direction. and God is the biggest purpose. i dont want to get too much into it since religion is banned on this site but i really wish i could explain it to you better. No one is saying a dove will magically fly over your head and drop a crate of a million dollars. its not about that. you have to have a peace of mind, that no matter what happens, you have a sense of calm. have you seen how some of the poorest/disadvantages people have the biggest of smiles on their faces?
Im willing to take matters into my own hands
people think you are discouraged from doing that in religion, but no, do your best! try your hardest! this is what its all about, do you think we were all created just so we could wallow around and not use our full potential? that would be counterintuitive. but at the same time, keep your trust in God, because things do eventually go wrong and when they do, its up to us to keep our trust in God do what we can
I'm gonna be so real with you bro, get off this site and look at ways to better yourself away from the internet. Invest in yourself, take care of yourself, your hygiene, what you eat, your health and you'll start feeling better. Stop playing valorant and stop looking at it as the only thing you have left. Soon when you get a job that you enjoy you won't even want to touch the game. You are where your mind is, start thinking ahead to be ahead.
I feel you man, you said you are not using discord anymore. However if you wanna add me I play a lot of games alone, because like you no friend0s games like sons of the forest, phasmophobia, operation tango, orcs must die etc.
as of right now I am playing sons of the forest if you wanna join me, just send your discord and we can have some fun together.
I dont know how old are you, but just for context I am 27 living in Brazil and my english is undertanable hahaha
People overestimate what they can do in a day, and hugely underestimate what they can do in a year. My advice is to build momentum: write down 10 things you want to do about yourself that can lead to a better life, things like "i want to be physically active in some way", be generic and lenient when writing the list. Sort them from highest impact to lowest impact, and commit to the first point of the list on the first month, point 1 and 2 on the second month and so on... after a few months you'll start seeing some results, and after a few more months the other people are gonna notice a change as well, and that's a big motivation injection and you'll be glad you took action
thanks man, i know a lot of people here are probably just trolling but even if they are genuine dickheads im aware that such people exist and i dont take up negative energy on me, you can be assured that i greatly appreciate all the nice comments here because its been a good damn while since i read/got some
Sorry to hear this, try to play some sports or whatever, do something active that maybe will clear your mind. Also set goals for yourself, if you put your mind to something it will help you overall. Also, at least from my experience, people aren’t gonna push you away just because you’re friendless. If you make the effort to talk to them, hang out with them, they will grow on you eventually.
Since I went through the same stage as you, I can completely relate to how you are feeling right now. Of course, each of us faces a variety of issues in life, and we may believe that this is the most significant one. I was forced to spend a significant amount of my childhood without my parents, and from my perspective, the situation I find myself in right now is the absolute worst one can be. I am telling you this because challenges can affect people, regardless of how severe they are. Your situation is also one that needs to be known and helped, and I would love to be a part of it. But in my opinion, only we can truly discover and improve ourselves. At the very least, I think that is the case.
I see that some of the sensible people in this thread have already advised you to do the things that will certainly aid your recovery. I wholeheartedly agree with them and want you to know that you are NOT alone and that there will be people who care about you in the future.
Don’t let the Negativity around the social media affect your energy King. Us men know what you’re going through. But also know that if you ask for help and want someone to talk to you can always hit me up. And I’m pretty sure almost everyone here would do the same for you.
Right now you feel that you don’t have anyone to talk to, but Let me tell you that’s actually a blessing. With how sensitive, inconsiderate, and selfish people have become, you wouldn’t wanna invest your time in them.
Remember the ABI of life. ALWAYS BE IMPROVING. Just focus on becoming a better version of yourself and don’t find happiness in some other people. Try to find happiness in yourself and you’d be surprised to see how little you’d wanna interact with people when you start loving yourself.
All good my guy! You got this. When you said that only your mom and dad loves you, let me tell you this that they are the only real people in your life who wants you to succeed and doesn’t envy what you have or what you’ll achieve in life.
Start with short term goals in your life, that you want to achieve. You said you wanna become a computer engineer, start learning skills that will help you get closer to that goal. Like Hey, I wanna complete this task by the end of the week. And start doing it. Trust me when you feel like your are achieving something in life, you’ll start to feel good. And wouldn’t even be interested on your own to talk to people cause they would mess up your energy
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