Hello Guys. Pls don't be mean. My mom did a transplant yesterday and she died while doing her surgery. She got an infection and her heart stopped beating. I'm so fucking sad. I don't really have friends and idk who to talk to except my family. My mom wanted to live in a big house and get rich before she die but I couldn't even fullfill her wishes and dreams. She was suffering so much before she pass away. My mom love us so much to the point where she doesn't want us to move out from her apt. She was so lonely when me and my sis moved out. Now I can't do anything but live with regrets for the rest of my life. She really thought the transplant was going to save her life. She was so happy and she told us she's strong and will not die but she was having a difficult time when I last visit her on Nov 30. The day before she die. What do I do? I don't want to live without my mom. I'm going crazy
My mom just died from liver disease
My condolences, so sorry for your loss, tough shit to deal with when your parents die(sadly experienced it myself). As an advice, just hang in there, and know that your Mom will always be your number 1 supporter. Best thing you can do for her is just keep living. Of course it will be tough, first weeks after I had the same situation I was going crazy, felt like the world collapsed. Then reality slowly settled in, that life goes on and your loved ones would love to see you go on with your life and reach your goals
My condolences. Wish you all the best
It's impossible for me to know your pain, but I have a relative who currently has lung cancer so I have like sort of mentally prepared for that day to come
These first few days arent going to be easy but if you ever need someone to talk to you can come talk to us
Hello geng_glazer. I don't know exactly what you're going throguh but I know that you fucking got this man. I lost my dad when I was 15 to a blood clot, fucked up. He was probably my only real solid person to look up to even to this day. Really thought everything was over and I didn't know what comes after, I couldn't possibly imagine living in a future without my dad, it's all I ever knew.
You should be proud that your mother was a fighter. She'd want to see you do the same.
I have nightmares about my parents passing away. I'm sorry you went through this and I can't even imagine the grief you're going through right now.
Just know that you and her family must have meant the world to her, and I'm so so confident that you were a good child and she raised you well.
It's so sad and unfortunate she had to move on. A friend of mine lost someone close to her recently as well, and I told her this:
"fate is often cruel and death likes to take those who deserve it the least... it is up to us to make the most of that time in between and to bring respect to their memory after.
there's a quote from tuesdays with morrie that i think applies here:
"Death ends a life, not a relationship. All the love you created is still there. All the memories are still there. You live on- in the hearts of everyone you have touched and nurtured while you were here.""
when in mourning, make sure to take care of yourself, make sure you're eating properly, trying to sleep as best as you can, and drinking water. I'm sorry for your loss and I hope your mother lives on - not just as a fond memory, but also a source of motivation, strength, and inspiration.
My sincerest condolences. I can't completely understand the extent of your grief as i'm not in your shoes but i'm here for you. Shit's painful but I hope you could carry not the weight of your loss but the undying love she had for you and achieve your goals for the rest of your life with her in mind. I'm sure she'll be smiling down at you
im really sorry for your loss. maybe you will feel lost for a while, and that's normal, it's grief. it will go away. you will find your path again. don't try to get answers now, just feel the sadness you need to feel, let it pass through you, and move on in your time when you're ready. take care of yourself, she's watching you 🖤.
I haven't experienced anything like that so I can't say i know how you feel, but I am knowledgeable enough to say this , I know this sucks hard for you and you prolly feel you life has gone to shit and sometimes may even want to die but don't do that bro, don't try to fight the grief , accept it as a loss cause that's the best path u can take , bottling the grief will only cause greater harm, don't worry and keep fighting you will heal over time bro , also sorry for your loss, if it makes u feel better, she may be in a better place
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