how to move on (breakups)

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ashNfps

genuine question, i'm 15, lost my first ever love, just like any other guy, crying day n night. what should i do to heal/move on
tyia guys ;)

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just take your time man, im sorry

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yeah, no easy way out of it. sucks like nothing else but best to do other things to take your mind off it. before you know it you'll be better

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cerefes

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Life advice on vlr 🙏

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sintax

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still better then the guy that requested driving advice

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vlr the typa site to say "get drunk" and then start driving

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play spike rush and farm egirls

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Amexdxyz

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Swift plays*

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Hey man everything will be fine. Trust the process.

Also I don’t think this is the right place for relationship advice

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KGad03

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There's no answer bud, but it'll happen. Sooner or later you will move on, just try and distract yourself with activities until you can process ur thoughts.

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im 13 so i havent expierenced this but prolly talk to someone or dont play valorant

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nuthoneycheerios

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valorant came out when u were 8 god damn im old...

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milozzy123

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hit radiant

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DIVYANSH6926

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just queue ranked at 3pm

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seven_glazer

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bitches come and go bro

but you know I stay

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SleepingSnorlax

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Dude just study atp don’t fall for them yet

#13

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time heals and distractions help
youre very young, youll be meeting a lot of nice people in your life, try not to get stuck on something that wasnt meant to be

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sintax

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everything will be ok in the end and if not then its not the end. its rough out there buddy but it gets better. in life everything comes and goes but its always painful.

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Divine_Thunder

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But I do know one thing though
Bitches, they come, they go
Saturday through Sunday, Monday (Yeah-yeah)
Monday through Sunday, yo
Maybe I'll love you one day
Maybe we'll someday grow
'Til then just sit your drunk ass on that fuckin' runway, ho

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mysc_

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Bro at 15, tf?

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ashNfps

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i have unfortunately felt neglected by my own family so i tend to seek love from others, may sound very unusual, but that's what's happening in my life, it is what it is ig haha

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Bhrubby

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Never beat your meat and go to the gym

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citrus_

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be like that one guy where he goes on a win streak from iron to immortal

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eStos

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only time will heal you. it took me two years to finally move on. you gotta find out what's the one thing that will set you free, the thing that'll give you peace. I sent a letter to my ex talking about how I felt about her (good things only), how she made me feel and some other things. wished her a happy life and thanked her for our time together. she didn't respond, but at least I got it out of my chest. only time will tell you what you need to do. you'll move on eventually.

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Dcoo99

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You're still young bro, might seem like the end of the world rn but in time you'll realize you haven't even thought about it for days and it won't bother you anymore.

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P1cture

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I think you solo q valorant jk messing go to the gym

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ask gpt

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Cheeky007

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stop playing valorant for a while and your mood will brighten up in no time

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15 💔 you’ll forget about her before you can even drive ngl

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Hynix

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rare sideshowsbaldhead w

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ashNfps

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hahaaha funny thing, my friend's dad (who has basically adopted me at this point) is teaching me and my bro how to drive

but yeah, hopefully i can move on, thank you

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i worded that a bit harsh but i also mean it

“it’ll be okay eventually” is kind of useless advice but in this case it’s very true. you’re so young than one day you will look back at this and laugh at yourself for ever caring about her except that one day will probably come before you are even an adult.

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ik u probably feel like ur grown up but ur life is just beggining bro, you'll move on. with effort, and patience, the right one will arrive, eventually

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31Raven

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play val 15 hours a day surely youll be better then

fr tho, if she left you its on her. if she was with u originally then she did love you, but maybe it wasnt right for her at the moment. maybe no relationship is. unfortunately you cant change other peoples mind on these sorts of things, but you can remind yourself it most likely wasnt your fault. i need you to fully understand that so you can help yourself heal in that way.

secondly, as annoying or unhelpful as this may seem, theres plenty more people out there. you will find someone one day who will make you shine brighter than she did. life has its ups and downs, so, logically, it can bring you the ups in due time. theres always good parts of life, even if it doesnt seem like it currently. i need you to remember that too. you can find something, whether it be person or thing, to make you see the good parts again.

also, knowing this is rich from someone a few months older than you, but you have time to experience all these things. youre only 15, you can live, you can love, you can do everything as you are still young. you got this.

i hope this helped.

best of luck.

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im 20

sometimes moving on isn't just not feeling sad anymore

but tbh when i was 15 and got dumped i kinda just started grinding school, so idk, maybe thatll work for u, i thank myself for getting good grades back then

i got over it after a year

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Neppten

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do something take your mind off it man, grind for something. ur still young boss stuff happens

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if you have hobbies just focus on that, grind valorant if you like it, watch movies, you will figure it out
also you're 15, there's so much you have experienced and this is one of many those, it's alr about time you'll forget about it

also its literally not that deep

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ashNfps

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hello, I'd like to thank everyone for their nice advises, I apologize for not being able to respond as I'm studying for long tests tomorrow, thank you so much to everyone, bless you all ;)
more info abt us
-11months, ldr for 4, turns out she found a new guy at her school hahahaha, how fun
anyways thank you guys, goodluck with everything, much love

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Zyrux

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Hey it's okay champ I understand you I'm going through this too I brokeup just day before yesterday but I'm older than you but it's same for everyone. So focus on studies eat healthy be joyful nd okay physical game with frnds it helps

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Sorry to hear that bro hope you are doing good

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shaggyboy1030

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Study hard brother ..... be healthy and stay as happy as possible do what you love, talk to your friends .... ik the first few months might be difficult for you(believe me ik) but don't move your mind away from your goals

Also all the best for the tests tmmrw bro

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Z0vereign

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after i got dumped my ex started dating one of my friends a week after and we dated for a year and a half. honestly past a point you just stop caring about anything that goes on with them

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m0rtem

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use that emotion to reach radiant

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ashNfps

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i unfortunately only have a 2ghz cpu w 4gb ram laptop with me rn, my pc psu went kaboom and basically damaged everything haha, thanks for the advice tho ;)

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Find a new hobby, go to gym, try force urself to become a better person for yourself, and don't think about relationships for a while till you feel like you are happy with the man you see in the mirror HE-HE...

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Go to the gym, fap in the shower, watch some valorant, repeat