Even in my edgy era bro I used to think rape jokes are disgusting... How even people are defending him
I don't think people are defending him and more like explaining how this is just a byproduct of your environment, i doubt when he made the joke he had evil intentions, If your friends make such jokes, relatives or environment you would most likely make such a joke and this affects children and teenagers, I say this as a teenager myself where saying retard, faggot are all normal things in the environment I grew in, until I went online and saw different.
i was actually gonna type about this exact thing he said,they clearly knew each other good enough that the girl didnt even care to call him out for being weird when they were dating and still continued for over 10 months as he said lol,it was clearly not a big deal to her until now that she can use it to trash his image more,u cant know what the dynamic was like between them and what they were comfortable with saying to each other and joking about
if u saw the screenshot that's quite literally what he said, I'm not saying that she's innocent and she clearly could've taken accountability for her own actions by talking about stuff like that with him but ur just shifting the entire narrative to make it seem as if it was her fault for everything instead of his lol
i made a thread about it addressing it because stuff like that gets swept under the rug multiple times both in real life and in this community and a lot of people do in fact get away with it but saying that threatening to rape someone is "just that" is pretty weird LOL imagine how the girl felt in that situation, she too is also a kid, personally I'm not making it into "some massive career ending drama" what u said was just simply weird LOL!
saying that it's "just that" insinuates that u think what he said wasn't a big deal and u probably do in fact think that when taking into consideration ur reactions to people calling him out, can't really change the mind of someone who think threatening to r word someone isn't a big deal even as a joke so ur just a pretty shitty person honestly
https://x.com/yoonvvs/status/1915639005594472921 she clearly wasn't comfortable with what happened and she's also still a child, not every single person is going to call out someone for what they do when they're uncomfortable, it's awkward and u don't know her LOL
No one randomly wakes up and decides to make those type of jokes I know younger people who make those type of jokes and they do it because they feel comfortable enough with the person to do so… they meet someone new and talk to someone they aren’t as close with and they are as shy as can be. The fact that she doesn’t IMMEDIATELY address the fact he said that afterwards only speaks to the situation. You’re weird.
https://x.com/progamergf/status/1915806813649305909 lol incels shifting the blame to the woman and anyone but the actual person who said it is so corny
No one claimed she isn't or that she can't be, however that leads to misunderstandings... you cannot blame someone for not understanding something about you if YOU can verbalize it humans are not omniscient mind readers... you're dating him you don't know his behavior again no ones saying this if they don't feel they have a comfortable relationship with the person. Of course... because I'm not giving an analysis on the situation... idiot... once again I'm responding to YOU. Ya know why it sounds like I'm only pinning it on her? Because you're only pinning it on him... and I'm responding to what YOU said… crazy, ain't it? Almost like cause and effect exist or something strange...
I agree he has time to learn and grow from his mistakes. He's young and definitely has a future, but he has a lot of explaining to do and a big apology to make. Him deactivating twitter and possibly discord doesn't help his case. Also, for the girlfriend argument, she broke up with him and condoned him because of this after it kept happening and he didn't learn from it. While she probably should have cut the relationship sooner, you really can't blame her.