So we've been together for 5 years now and I have a couple of issues. Sometimes when I play ranked valorant, I always tell her that it is important and I can't leave my game because every round counts but for some reason, she still calls me out when I am in a middle of a ranked game to get a delivery outside or when she is telling me to do chores. I always do chores when I am not in a ranked game so I don't get her attitude. Awhile ago she is also leaving for work and I see that it's about to rain so I told her to grab her umbrella because she might get wet (she has no car umbrella). She initially tells me that she's okay but when I said "Why can't you respect what I say, it is about to rain, can you listen to me for a sec", she says in a high pitch voice almost screaming "Why tf you talk a lot of shit, blabla" then she grabs her umbrella from the porch. I don't even know what to feel anymore. My life only revolves around work (work from home), valorant, and lately I started going to the gym at least twice a week. Any inputs would help. Thanks.
My girlfriend doesn't respect me
So we've been together for 5 years now and I have a couple of issues. Sometimes when I play ranked valorant, I always tell her that it is important and I can't leave my game because every round counts but for some reason, she still calls me out when I am in a middle of a ranked game to get a delivery outside or when she is telling me to do chores. I always do chores when I am not in a ranked game so I don't get her attitude. Awhile ago she is also leaving for work and I see that it's about to rain so I told her to grab her umbrella because she might get wet (she has no car umbrella). She initially tells me that she's okay but when I said "Why can't you respect what I say, it is about to rain, can you listen to me for a sec", she says in a high pitch voice almost screaming "Why tf you talk a lot of shit, blabla" then she grabs her umbrella from the porch. I don't even know what to feel anymore. My life only revolves around work (work from home), valorant, and lately I started going to the gym at least twice a week. Any inputs would help. Thanks.
Your girlfriend seems pretty toxic sometimes but just because someone doesn't take your advice doesn't mean they don't respect what you said.
Her getting rained on is personally not really a hill i'd die on imo, she probably just wanted to take her chances and not have to carry it around.
If she really doesn't respect what you have to say it would show itself in something much more important
Thanks for this. This is just one of the few occasions where I feel like this. Another example would be she would give my old clothes to her siblings. It's fine with me but I told her that next time, she should ask me first before making those decisions. It's getting kinda tiring. I always tell her these stuff but it just keeps happening and she gives me that attitude and it pisses me off. She doesn't even apologize sincerely, she just stays quiet and does her own thing. If she would apologize, it's because I'm telling her the stuff that she did wrong based on my perspective but it still keeps happening.
By expressing how you feel and not letting she always get her way, you don't need to be an asshole, but if you need to make sure she knows she can't just be a bitch all the time too. It seems like you care too much about little things too, maybe also just relax a bit and let her do something stupid onde in a while, and use it as exempe when she is doing it again.
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