Just got rejected not feeling much tho slightly sad yet no tears happy that i could get this stupid shit off my chest the downside is I'm kinda lost anyone have advice on what to do now(am student)
My friend, it's all part of the game. I don't think you should care. Society puts a lot of pressure on men to find a mate. This really only stresses you out and you become desperate for sexual pleasure. So firstly, I'd like to make it clear that celibacy is fine.
Now, in terms of the girl, it depends on a lot of things. Did you ask her out or did you perform some romantic coming-out? Because the latter never really works, and it's unsafe. The best way to approach a girl is to be flirty with her, and if you see there being some response (some actual interest, btw don't get it confused, I mean legitimate interest, as in she puts effort into hanging out with you as well, she puts effort in communicating with you, having fun with you). Only then can you ask her out, and make it clear that it won't be a platonic date (it's a casual way of not wrecking your ego in case you get shot down, and also keeping a friendly relationship with the person), and in the case you get shot down you can play it off as "alright" instead of being heartbroken. Now! I'm not saying you won't be heartbroken, the advice above was mostly about keeping a safe distance with the other person and not making things awkward or uneven.
In the case that you are very young and you've already fallen in love, I'll give you the advice that: Once you get old, you won't fall in love at first glance, it will be a mutual and gradual thing with your partner.