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goatman123 [#9]like legitimate 0 rizz
no but like, have u ever gotten to the talking stage or what do u mean
moomoomoomeadows [#8]treat them like human beings the bar is literally so low rn trust my bestie waxed poetic about a guy that asked her about her day before talking about himself the other day
he looks like a lil rat man too like i cannot stress enough how LOW the bar is these girls are thirsty and it is a desert
RandomToastyy [#4]i used to get all the girls in kindergarten while being in kindergarten I fell off
the fact you edited this to specify you were also in kindergarten fucking kills me LMFAOOOO
moomoomoomeadows [#8]treat them like human beings the bar is literally so low rn trust my bestie waxed poetic about a guy that asked her about her day before talking about himself the other day
that does not work out for me
moomoomoomeadows [#11]he looks like a lil rat man too like i cannot stress enough how LOW the bar is these girls are thirsty and it is a desert
u are from the west buddy its diff here
RandomToastyy [#4]i used to get all the girls in kindergarten while being in kindergarten I fell off
They got us in the first half ngl
femboyenjoyer [#14]if u dont look hideous just be like nice n funny idk and someone will like u surely(i like femboys dont fucking ask me)
imma say im above avg (like 6.5 or 7)
shrike- [#12]the fact you edited this to specify you were also in kindergarten fucking kills me LMFAOOOO
I just know some mfer gonna call me a pedo or some shit if I didnt say that
Heya! To be fair, my girlfriend asked me out so I'm not all too knowledgeable on this. However, if I had to provide some tips, I would suggest for you to:
- Keep to one girl who you're truly interested in and invest as much time as possible into interacting with her, whether that is online or in person. (Only works if you are looking to commit to someone)
- Play it slow. A lot of younger people I see nowadays really just put their feet on the pedal during relationships. Take it slow, don't get burnt out too soon.
- Be yourself. Be authentic. Don't try to be someone you aren't, it'll never work out in the end.
I know, this stuff seems very basic and "well, duh", but this is all I got on a rather basic level as I do not know about your context. Cheers mate!
Disastered [#10]no but like, have u ever gotten to the talking stage or what do u mean
bro is getting locked out of this stage
ButterflyEffect23 [#25]bro is getting locked out of this stage
wont even get into the talking stage with me
RandomToastyy [#4]i used to get all the girls in kindergarten while being in kindergarten I fell off
Edit: i still get all the kindergarden girls
Kaust [#23]Heya! To be fair, my girlfriend asked me out so I'm not all too knowledgeable on this. However, if I had to provide some tips, I would suggest for you to:
- Keep to one girl who you're truly interested in and invest as much time as possible into interacting with her, whether that is online or in person. (Only works if you are looking to commit to someone)
- Play it slow. A lot of younger people I see nowadays really just put their feet on the pedal during relationships. Take it slow, don't get burnt out too soon.
- Be yourself. Be authentic. Don't try to be someone you aren't, it'll never work out in the end.
I know, this stuff seems very basic and "well, duh", but this is all I got on a rather basic level as I do not know about your context. Cheers mate!
- (don't play games bro, u don't need a gf if ur doing it for the shits and giggles)
- (keep it in your pants, try to realize that its infatuation not love
- Be yourself, Be authentic, moreover don't actually change when you figure out they do like you, they subscribed to the person they started to like not the person whos trying to keep them interested (personal experience)
Disastered [#30]
- (don't play games bro, u don't need a gf if ur doing it for the shits and giggles)
- (keep it in your pants, try to realize that its infatuation not love
- Be yourself, Be authentic, moreover don't actually change when you figure out they do like you, they subscribed to the person they started to like not the person whos trying to keep them interested (personal experience)
I'm going to assume that this is for OP and not me (:
Disastered [#33]oh yeah, and for myself lowk
What's up, man? I think your advice is brilliant though!
RandomToastyy [#22]I just know some mfer gonna call me a pedo or some shit if I didnt say that
I don't know why but "report" button under your comment is blue for me, when every other is gray XD
Kaust [#34]What's up, man? I think your advice is brilliant though!
in that situation, just trying not to overly panic
kfan4238173 [#35]what
i didnt know how to say that you get lots of girls, but as friends (didnt wanna write girl friends, mightve gotten mixed up) so basically you get friendzoned (girls call me cute, im 6'1 and im kinda normal i guess? cause otherwise they wouldnt spend time with me)
Kaust [#39]This comment confuses me.
not tryna over share, but I am one with relationship anxiety so Im tryna just relax this time
sp0rtsman [#40]i didnt know how to say that you get lots of girls, but as friends (didnt wanna write girl friends, mightve gotten mixed up) so basically you get friendzoned (girls call me cute, im 6'1 and im kinda normal i guess? cause otherwise they wouldnt spend time with me)
i dont believe in female friends i think they want u
Disastered [#41]not tryna over share, but I am one with relationship anxiety so Im tryna just relax this time
Hey man, I don't mind that! Relationship anxiety is super common nowadays. I know someone who has relationship anxiety + trust issues, and they're never able to stick it. But I like your values! I'm rooting for you! Just trust your partner like there's no tomorrow (:
HenBabyH [#42]Be yourself (and tell them that you know HenBabyH)
OP, please dont tell them you know HenBabyH 🙏🙏🙏😭😭😭
Disastered [#10]no but like, have u ever gotten to the talking stage or what do u mean
i honestly havent talked to a lot of girls the last 3 years (before that tho yea)
but that just might be because i dont talk to ppl generally
(BUT I SWEAR IM NOT WEIRD IM NORMAL BUT IM JUST NOT SOCIAL)
goatman123 [#47]i honestly havent talked to a lot of girls the last 3 years (before that tho yea)
but that just might be because i dont talk to ppl generally
(BUT I SWEAR IM NOT WEIRD IM NORMAL BUT IM JUST NOT SOCIAL)
I didnt think u were weird, the way a girl started liking me was just noticing me doing my own thing (im not a looker)
Disastered [#48]I didnt think u were weird, the way a girl started liking me was just noticing me doing my own thing (im not a looker)
that happened to me like once and never since then or before..
goatman123 [#47]i honestly havent talked to a lot of girls the last 3 years (before that tho yea)
but that just might be because i dont talk to ppl generally
(BUT I SWEAR IM NOT WEIRD IM NORMAL BUT IM JUST NOT SOCIAL)
All good bro, just keep acting like yourself (may I ask why you wish to inquire about finding a girlfriend right now?)
goatman123 [#49]that happened to me like once and never since then or before..
I understand, are you in school or what period r u at
kaninv [#37]get lucky you meet someone who appreciates you for who you are
don't be an incel
take care of yourself and your life
i am at step 1
how do i proceed
Kaust [#45]Hey man, I don't mind that! Relationship anxiety is super common nowadays. I know someone who has relationship anxiety + trust issues, and they're never able to stick it. But I like your values! I'm rooting for you! Just trust your partner like there's no tomorrow (:
its tuff but im trying
Kaust [#50]All good bro, just keep acting like yourself (may I ask why you wish to inquire about finding a girlfriend right now?)
the normal reasons why people wish to find girlfriends ig
goatman123 [#52]i am at step 1
how do i proceed
in all honesty I don't know where you're located and how old you are but dating apps are hated but not a bad option if you aren't a very socially outgoing person and tend to have people who are similar (and most of the time means they are more online and might share more interests)
if you are under 18 and still in school I'd just take any opportunity you get to hang out or do something even just with other people with someone you might like and build the relationship. if you get the feeling it isn't gonna happen, move on. if it seems to be going well, just continue and hope it works out
goatman123 [#54]the normal reasons why people wish to find girlfriends ig
do you want one for the long term or the short term?
goatman123 [#55]outta school in uni
you rate your looks as 6.5 - 7, try working in public places in uni maybe, just give more chances for people to come to you
Disastered [#57]do you want one for the long term or the short term?
its so fucked up that you have to ask people about it nowadays
goatman123 [#54]the normal reasons why people wish to find girlfriends ig
little timmy wants his dick sucked
Disastered [#58]you rate your looks as 6.5 - 7, try working in public places in uni maybe, just give more chances for people to come to you
yea probably, i could be a 8 if i hit the gym and get nice fits
i just need to be more social but idk how
goatman123 [#63]yea probably, i could be a 8 if i hit the gym and get nice fits
i just need to be more social but idk how
its really difficult I know, I think just channel your want for a relationship as motivation maybe?
Disastered [#53]its tuff but im trying
Good luck mate! Dunno how long you've been in a relationship for but I trust that as long as your partner shares your values, you'll work out just fine (ik ik, I'm just some guy on the internet)
Kaust [#67]Good luck mate! Dunno how long you've been in a relationship for but I trust that as long as your partner shares your values, you'll work out just fine (ik ik, I'm just some guy on the internet)
I appreciate it , thats just the stuff I need to hear from anyone <3
goatman123 [#60]i want love so long term
Then patience will be needed. You'll find someone who loves you for who you are. Don't just settle for anyone though, keep to your standards (:
Disastered [#68]I appreciate it , thats just the stuff I need to hear from anyone <3
You got this king (idk if yours is a 1 month or a 1 year sorta relationship)
Kaust [#69]Then patience will be needed. You'll find someone who loves you for who you are. Don't just settle for anyone though, keep to your standards (:
u gotta be a philospher or sum what u doing in vlr
Disastered [#66]its really difficult I know, I think just channel your want for a relationship as motivation maybe?
fk it u got me lockin in n shit
Kaust [#70]You got this king (idk if yours is a 1 month or a 1 year sorta relationship)
thank you man, I hope your relationship succeeds, hopefully I will feel more secure as time goes on (early stages)
w1atrak [#36]I don't know why but "report" button under your comment is blue for me, when every other is gray XD
what the flip man : (
Disastered [#74]thank you man, I hope your relationship succeeds, hopefully I will feel more secure as time goes on (early stages)
You got this mate, I'm about to celebrate my two year anniversary! Best of luck to you (:
goatman123 [#71]u gotta be a philospher or sum what u doing in vlr
You flatter me, good luck with your endeavors!
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