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girls with less than 10 previous bfs (you want your girl to be pro in bed)
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doesnt communicate with you
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communicates with you way too much
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clingy
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doesnt appreciate you buying her expensive gifts like iphone, airpods, makeup stuff, necklace or small stuff like flowers even when you have to cancel your football match with the boys to get them, and she never buys you anything cool except for your birthdays, sometimes brings her friends to our meetups and i hate her friends, and when you buy a ring and want to surprise her at her apartment to offer to marry her, you see her fucking her driver instructor Ahmet through her window and you actually told her before that you hated Ahmet's ass and you didnt want her to see him again at the course or anywhere else and then you fight, break up and eventually you forgive her and give her a second chance but then she breaks up with you 3 months later because she claims you have nothing in common even after dating together for 3.5 years, your friends even warned you about her but you didnt listen to them but you should have, and then you have to move back to your family's village in Adrianople from Constantinople, because you moved to Constantinople with the hope of making a life with her, maybe a few sons as well but not daughteres becuse you wanna train your sons to be top5 valorant players but now the whole city reminds you of her and the mothafucking course instructor Ahmet but at least Ahmet was in a car accident and lost a leg so fuck ahmet
redflags in a gf
wouldn't know, my wife who I married 2 weeks ago has 0 red flags. I know you're baiting but giving my 2 cents for the vlr virgins who clicked on this post in earnest:
-girls with less than 10 previous bfs (you want your girl to be pro in bed)
Bullshit. Also, a girl with only 1 or 2 longterm relationships that lasted quite a while will have built up all the "pro skills". Having gone into a real relationship with 10 dudes, unless it's over a lifetime, is more of a red flag given that the girl either couldn't stay in a relationship, or has no good judgment in men.
-doesnt communicate with you
Huge red flag. Communication is number 1 skill in relationships
-communicates with you way too much
-clingy
Grouping these together. While subjective, it shows signs of insecurity and instability in your relationship. Of course these things wax and wane over time and it's logical to be overly communicative at the start of your relationship, that then reduces in frequency and intensity somewhat later down the line.
-doesnt appreciate you buying her expensive gifts
It's a red flag if you are buying expensive gifts in the beginning of a relationship, showing that you may be trying to buy her affection. I only started getting my wife expensive gifts a couple years into the relationship, especially cause I'm quite well off and you want to make sure your partner is not in it for the materialistic stuff, or is a gold digger. It's more important that there is some reciprocity e.g. after I bought her a very expensive engagement rign, she returned the favor by buying me a very expensive guitar as an engagement gift to me (Paul Reed Smith McCarty 594 10 top).
Happy to shed more light on relationships and dating for the VLR virgins here
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