So today, we had a midnight plan to somewhere else far away from my home with two of my older and younger uncle's son. But I had to cancel the plan as my parents didn't gave permission at the very last moment. When I informed about it, one of my brother younger than me got so toxic that I kind off blocked his contact and social media rn. I am so fucking pissed rn that I won't be able to look at him the same way I used to. I told him that I will never participate in his lifetime personal or health problem ever. That guy is so young, yet he got toxic against his own older brother. I want to ask if I should talk him to again or help him when he need me the most even if I don't want to?
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Guys I had a fight with my uncle's brother just rn
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maybe if i put this message into chatgpt?
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So today, we had a midnight plan to somewhere else far away from my home with two of my older and younger uncle's son. But I had to cancel the plan as my parents didn't gave permission at the very last moment. When I informed about it, one of my brother younger than me got so toxic that I kind off blocked his contact and social media rn. I am so fucking pissed rn that I won't be able to look at him the same way I used to. I told him that I will never participate in his lifetime personal or health problem ever. That guy is so young, yet he got toxic against his own older brother. I want to ask if I should talk him to again or help him when he need me the most even if I don't want to?
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So today, we had a plan to go somewhere far from home at midnight with two of my cousins, one older and one younger. However, I had to cancel the plan because my parents didn’t give me permission at the last minute. When I told them about it, my younger cousin got so upset that he became really toxic. I ended up blocking his contact and social media right away. I’m so pissed off right now that I don’t think I’ll be able to look at him the same way again. I told him that I will never help him with any personal or health problems in the future. He’s so young, yet he acted so toxic toward his older brother. Now, I’m wondering if I should talk to him again or help him when he needs me, even though I really don’t want to.
Bro think every Indian relay on their social class structure. Bro in our state, we don't have any kind of social structure, and idk what exactly you were talkin bout but yeah I do have a temporary job earning enough to pay my fees on time. You guys are the type of people who will make stereotypes by lookin at any meme without any external knowledge.
You should talk to him about this, but DEFINITELY not now. Maybe not tomorrow, either.
These things happen, man. But the most important thing you can do is let things cool down before you take action. Even if you're in the right, all it'll do is make everyone more mad. Wait a few days, take your time, and then have that conversation
I don't know how old you are to call him a young boy, but like Cloudberry said, go have a conversation after a few days or weeks. Like it could be culture diff but don't approach this as "elder schooling kid". To him, you ain't his parents or anything. extremely unprofessional against an elder, sure but just be on the same level and approach him. But ease up man, you don't have to cut him off from socials out of spite.
tldr; don't approach him with "I'm older than you so I will teach you how to be respectful", go up to him as a friend and have a proper conversation. but you gotta know how to control your anger too. Because wtv you wrote were super aggressive
Well, you might be waiting a long time then cause atleast when I was that age, I don't think I ever said sorry for anything. But after few days if he starts talking normally then it's better to just forget that it happened and move on because chances are he knows what he said was wrong but doesn't know how to say it to you
I'm not entirely sure how your system works, but the way I see it, it would be more effective to approach it as a friend. Instead of scolding him and asking him to repent, it might be a better idea to show him you understand where he was coming from ("I get you were upset", etc.) and how his reaction affected you. Just thought I'd chip in my two cents
If my uncle knows what he said to me will make the matter even worse. I got my contact off from him although I feel responsible for that stuff still he needs to watch his mouth. I or myself have never seen someone badmouthing to elders in my entire family lineage, so that's why ig it felt so heartbroken for a guy who's 19 by four month from now.
Yeah I always used to have conversation with him as my closest friend not as a cousin. I felt he was my closest friend ever. But his actions were indeed against me made my heart drown. I think I have known enough thanks to you,cloudberry and yellow_donkey. You guys gave me enough tips. All I know is that approaching him will take longer than ever !! Have a good day mate
Not sure what an appropriate response would be for your culture but by principle I would communicate my displeasure towards the disrespect and make it known that you’ll be taking space from them. You can make it a set amount of time or until they apologize but for your own peace it makes sense to be forthright and then put the ball in their court to make amends.
Edit: Just realized this post is a month old and you resolved it. Feel free to ignore my advice.
at 19, most people would not give 2 shits about someone younger than them. even if it's family or relatives. You just gotta suck up your pride and ego. It's not about disrespect. it's about you caring about trivial things. Let him learn his own lessons, you're not his parent, you don't need to set him straight. You're older, you should already expect that kids are or can be immature. Fighting a lost cause IMO.
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