Crazy work from a friend of mine, on and off relationship for 5 months now, going from ''I don't care about the break up bro'' to ''I really miss her'' in a span of 9 hours, generational talent, more twists and turns than Mbappe to Real Madrid
like me and the other friends are in contact with both of them ( cuz we all are basically the same friend group) and both went from ''yeah fuck him/her, he/she is a jerk/bitch'' to ''I miss him/her''. They are out there on a fucking Anime Dialogue and I just wanna eat my Royal Cheeseburger. I need this level of delusion for my fucking lose streaks, that's just fucking beyond me
I don't get that shit at all, They pull that shit for a 3rd time now, and I asked the friend who fucking invited one of them over together for no reason what so ever and without telling anyone else and his point was : ''well we didn't hang out with him recently (he hang out with him 3 fucking days ago). Like I am just 100% positive the ex BF just begged to go cuz he listens to his dick and not to his brain
It's all human impulse, and people are born, raised, molded, and developed in different ways, growing different cooling mechanisms as they mature. In the case of your friends, they're very emotional about this kind of thing, so much so that it influences the majority of their thoughts and choices, almost to an unreasonable extent. I'm personally on the complete opposite side of the spectrum, where even if I'm madly in love with somebody I'll never let it influence any of my decisions or make me interact differently around them in any way, to a point where sometimes it feels like love is a construct and it's all in my head. And in either case, that's honestly okay. It completely depends from person to person how they react to love or loss of love, and as long as it's not extreme or dangerous or anything like that, I think it's fine. Of course, there's obviously healthier ways of coping, and people (myself included) should strive to be healthier both socially and emotionally, but that's a decision they have to make on their own.
(If none of this makes literally any sense, forgive me, it's midnight and I just got back from an outing)
Yeah but fucking why? Both are like 8/10 in appearance, might as well go forfeit this one (cuz it has been a toxic dump at times) and just get new relationships with someone more calm. I refuse to believe they are this restarted and delulu rn not to see that going into a ''good-shit-terrible-mid-ignore-good'' mood swing is just ''let's end our relationship in a fucking chernobyl level meltdown and have everyone else around us struggle to choose a side cuz all of us are friends''
hanged out yesterday with that girl (and like 7 other people) and she publically said that she don't give a fuck about him :D. Like i even know how that shit goes down, there are a few weeks of a calm relationship, they love each other, shit explodes at her birthday, nervous meltdown, friend group totally fucked over cuz they will hate each other's guts => GG