Crazy work from a friend of mine, on and off relationship for 5 months now, going from ''I don't care about the break up bro'' to ''I really miss her'' in a span of 9 hours, generational talent, more twists and turns than Mbappe to Real Madrid
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cloudberry [#2]
like me and the other friends are in contact with both of them ( cuz we all are basically the same friend group) and both went from ''yeah fuck him/her, he/she is a jerk/bitch'' to ''I miss him/her''. They are out there on a fucking Anime Dialogue and I just wanna eat my Royal Cheeseburger. I need this level of delusion for my fucking lose streaks, that's just fucking beyond me
saebr [#4]Just coping mechs bro
Yeah but fucking why? Both are like 8/10 in appearance, might as well go forfeit this one (cuz it has been a toxic dump at times) and just get new relationships with someone more calm. I refuse to believe they are this restarted and delulu rn not to see that going into a ''good-shit-terrible-mid-ignore-good'' mood swing is just ''let's end our relationship in a fucking chernobyl level meltdown and have everyone else around us struggle to choose a side cuz all of us are friends''
Nef0r0 [#5]Yeah but fucking why? Both are like 8/10 in appearance, might as well go forfeit this one (cuz it has been a toxic dump at times) and just get new relationships with someone more calm. I refuse to believe they are this restarted and delulu rn not to see that going into a ''good-shit-terrible-mid-ignore-good'' mood swing is just ''let's end our relationship in a fucking chernobyl level meltdown and have everyone else around us struggle to choose a side cuz all of us are friends''
Don't work like that, with some people, you fell attached with, you can't just "get over" quickly.
Like, you can hate CS2, but you already had spend soo much time in it, that u allways come back, plays a little bit, and stop playing again.
Prasinos [#6]Don't work like that, with some people, you fell attached with, you can't just "get over" quickly.
Like, you can hate CS2, but you already had spend soo much time in it, that u allways come back, plays a little bit, and stop playing again.
hanged out yesterday with that girl (and like 7 other people) and she publically said that she don't give a fuck about him :D. Like i even know how that shit goes down, there are a few weeks of a calm relationship, they love each other, shit explodes at her birthday, nervous meltdown, friend group totally fucked over cuz they will hate each other's guts => GG
Nef0r0 [#7]hanged out yesterday with that girl (and like 7 other people) and she publically said that she don't give a fuck about him :D. Like i even know how that shit goes down, there are a few weeks of a calm relationship, they love each other, shit explodes at her birthday, nervous meltdown, friend group totally fucked over cuz they will hate each other's guts => GG
She can cope too
saebr [#8]She can cope too
I expected her to cope, but this guy was going all stoic af for like a month and then just begged my friend into inviting him to hang out as well just to talk to her, bro faked being non chalant just to turn into a simp basically in front of everyone, wow
Nef0r0 [#7]hanged out yesterday with that girl (and like 7 other people) and she publically said that she don't give a fuck about him :D. Like i even know how that shit goes down, there are a few weeks of a calm relationship, they love each other, shit explodes at her birthday, nervous meltdown, friend group totally fucked over cuz they will hate each other's guts => GG
Womens are very good liars yk? She wants to act tough, so everyone thinks she moved on and she is strong.
But, she probally miss him.
And, sorry for the offense, but you friend group is falling apart bc u all pussies. Talk with they and say they dont have the right to order who u can fw.
Prasinos [#10]Womens are very good liars yk? She wants to act tough, so everyone thinks she moved on and she is strong.
But, she probally miss him.And, sorry for the offense, but you friend group is falling apart bc u all pussies. Talk with they and say they dont have the right to order who u can fw.
I mean when shit hits the fan I will be the first to talk with who I fucking want to, I am not in a fucking American Congress, I do not have to choose a party, it doesn't work like that, if anyone will shove that shit in my throat I will just I either cut ties with them or argue into accepting
Nef0r0 [#3]like me and the other friends are in contact with both of them ( cuz we all are basically the same friend group) and both went from ''yeah fuck him/her, he/she is a jerk/bitch'' to ''I miss him/her''. They are out there on a fucking Anime Dialogue and I just wanna eat my Royal Cheeseburger. I need this level of delusion for my fucking lose streaks, that's just fucking beyond me
I get that (kind of)
Nef0r0 [#5]Yeah but fucking why? Both are like 8/10 in appearance, might as well go forfeit this one (cuz it has been a toxic dump at times) and just get new relationships with someone more calm. I refuse to believe they are this restarted and delulu rn not to see that going into a ''good-shit-terrible-mid-ignore-good'' mood swing is just ''let's end our relationship in a fucking chernobyl level meltdown and have everyone else around us struggle to choose a side cuz all of us are friends''
looks arent everything and feelings just dont go away that easily...........
cloudberry [#12]I get that (kind of)
I don't get that shit at all, They pull that shit for a 3rd time now, and I asked the friend who fucking invited one of them over together for no reason what so ever and without telling anyone else and his point was : ''well we didn't hang out with him recently (he hang out with him 3 fucking days ago). Like I am just 100% positive the ex BF just begged to go cuz he listens to his dick and not to his brain
smthlikeyou11 [#13]looks arent everything and feelings just dont go away that easily...........
see I understand that but when both of them talk for 3 weeks about how they are both over it and how the relationship was toxic and they just jump in the same boat, I wish for the best for them, but that just screams 1 month long relationship max
Nef0r0 [#11]I mean when shit hits the fan I will be the first to talk with who I fucking want to, I am not in a fucking American Congress, I do not have to choose a party, it doesn't work like that, if anyone will shove that shit in my throat I will just I either cut ties with them or argue into accepting
Don't need to cut ties, but yeah, thats the spirit.
Also, she probally will go back to him, Women universal rule:
- The more she hates u (without a good reason) after a break up, the more she still loves you.
She hates u bc she cant handle the felling that she still likes you.
ronaldinhoooooooooooo [#15]typical teen relationship. they feed off drama. textbook toxic relationship, teens r into that.
I mean I was always wondering how some women end up with fucking sub 50 iq pieces of human scum who abuse them on daily basis yet they still talk about how '' they can fix them'' but now I am just asking myself what the fuck am I witnessing in a way smaller scale
Prasinos [#17]Don't need to cut ties, but yeah, thats the spirit.
Also, she probally will go back to him, Women universal rule:
- The more she hates u (without a good reason) after a break up, the more she still loves you.
She hates u bc she cant handle the felling that she still likes you.
ended their relationship in a most toxic way, talked for a few hours trauma dumping, went into the same river for the third or fourth time, I legit need this delusion in my gaming sessions
Nef0r0 [#14]I don't get that shit at all, They pull that shit for a 3rd time now, and I asked the friend who fucking invited one of them over together for no reason what so ever and without telling anyone else and his point was : ''well we didn't hang out with him recently (he hang out with him 3 fucking days ago). Like I am just 100% positive the ex BF just begged to go cuz he listens to his dick and not to his brain
It's all human impulse, and people are born, raised, molded, and developed in different ways, growing different cooling mechanisms as they mature. In the case of your friends, they're very emotional about this kind of thing, so much so that it influences the majority of their thoughts and choices, almost to an unreasonable extent. I'm personally on the complete opposite side of the spectrum, where even if I'm madly in love with somebody I'll never let it influence any of my decisions or make me interact differently around them in any way, to a point where sometimes it feels like love is a construct and it's all in my head. And in either case, that's honestly okay. It completely depends from person to person how they react to love or loss of love, and as long as it's not extreme or dangerous or anything like that, I think it's fine. Of course, there's obviously healthier ways of coping, and people (myself included) should strive to be healthier both socially and emotionally, but that's a decision they have to make on their own.
(If none of this makes literally any sense, forgive me, it's midnight and I just got back from an outing)
Prasinos [#6]Don't work like that, with some people, you fell attached with, you can't just "get over" quickly.
Like, you can hate CS2, but you already had spend soo much time in it, that u allways come back, plays a little bit, and stop playing again.
Why did you just compare having a significant other to having a CS2 addiction, and why did it make perfect sense
cloudberry [#20]It's all human impulse, and people are born, raised, molded, and developed in different ways, growing different cooling mechanisms as they mature. In the case of your friends, they're very emotional about this kind of thing, so much so that it influences the majority of their thoughts and choices, almost to an unreasonable extent. I'm personally on the complete opposite side of the spectrum, where even if I'm madly in love with somebody I'll never let it influence any of my decisions or make me interact differently around them in any way, to a point where sometimes it feels like love is a construct and it's all in my head. And in either case, that's honestly okay. It completely depends from person to person how they react to love or loss of love, and as long as it's not extreme or dangerous or anything like that, I think it's fine. Of course, there's obviously healthier ways of coping, and people (myself included) should strive to be healthier both socially and emotionally, but that's a decision they have to make on their own.
(If none of this makes literally any sense, forgive me, it's midnight and I just got back from an outing)
nah It's good, I understood everything, but when their relationship ends ( and I genuinely hope i am wrong) I will be the first to say that it was to be expected
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