When your mom says in an argument "i gave u birth on this planet" how do u make a comeback from that? My mom uses this every freaking time.
Its not like she chose it to be me or i wanted it
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Bro just listen to your mom, she just wants the best for you. She’s been feeding and clothing ur ass and (if doing her job properly) gave you love and affection.
Just listen to her as long as shes not making completely unreasonable demands that go too far ( like making you go into computer science if what you really want is communications and marketing), basically something reallt serious that would seriously fuck things up.
Stop playing games past 10pm, finish ur homework, do your chores, clean after yourself.
Moiraine [#8]Bro just listen to your mom, she just wants the best for you. She’s been feeding and clothing ur ass and (if doing her job properly) gave you love and affection.
Just listen to her as long as shes not making completely unreasonable demands that go too far ( like making you go into computer science if what you really want is communications and marketing), basically something reallt serious that would seriously fuck things up.
Stop playing games past 10pm, finish ur homework, do your chores, clean after yourself.
cringe, u dont even know what this is about man, its nothing that serious. She just used it to "win" every argument we have, it doesnt matter what its about, ppl have different takes all the time
cobalt21312 [#7]“nah might as well chill for a bit💯💯💯”
what if she responds with: "yeah u can chill because of me"
Nilonesia [#14]I’m your child, not your minion/dog.
I have opinions and choices, if you want me to be convinced, explain why, don’t just say “just cause,”.
best answer so far
Choconaniyay [#15]best answer so far
kinda an L mom if that's true tbh, my mom is a professor and she always won the argument against me using facts and shii even when I was still a 9yo,
I used to hate it but nowadays my mom didn't really care about me and I miss the times when my mom scold me ngl
Moiraine [#8]Bro just listen to your mom, she just wants the best for you. She’s been feeding and clothing ur ass and (if doing her job properly) gave you love and affection.
Just listen to her as long as shes not making completely unreasonable demands that go too far ( like making you go into computer science if what you really want is communications and marketing), basically something reallt serious that would seriously fuck things up.
Stop playing games past 10pm, finish ur homework, do your chores, clean after yourself.
thanks for the advice mom moiraine
Choconaniyay [#13]what if she responds with: "yeah u can chill because of me"
Say "L + Ratio + Boaster Clears U"
RomanKatapult [#18]"How do u make a comeback from that?"
Thats the neat part, you dont.
Fr lmao you would rather not escalate it into an ass whooping 🤣
Neonfreak [#33]A lot of mother defenders in this thread...I think parents want to feel appreciated for what they have done so if you want to get your point across, I would say "I am grateful that you have done x, y, and z for me BUT" and then voice your complaint/concern/desire
People don’t realize some children grow up in legitimately horrible environments. Which is why it’s better to be thankful but still hold your own sovereignty.
Man this thread turned out more wholesome then i expected, ig we're all not degens
Abt the whole argument problem, i would suggest just humouring her on the surface while not giving a shit in reality, that's mostly how my dad(and i) deal with my mom when she starts getting argumentative abt something
Nilonesia [#34]People don’t realize some children grow up in legitimately horrible environments. Which is why it’s better to be thankful but still hold your own sovereignty.
Exactly, obviously not every mom that uses this argument is bad but emotionally manipulative moms bring up "i brought you into this world" as an argument to make the child feel guilty about wanting small things or contradicting the parents in any way. I think other vlr users are just lucky not to have experienced that
What's the context of the situation ur mom needing to say something like that? I just don't think any parent would pull some words as strong as those if the situation is not serious? My mom never said something like that. Well, sorry in advance i bring up religion, but in Islam children know better religiously not to make their parents in this context, mom, be at a point where she lets out these words in the first place. I cannot think of any scenario but the child has said/done something disrespectful to his/her mom that she finally says those words. Therefor, yeah, context is needed
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