a couple of years ago, my friend from italy came to stay with me for the summer. we were listening to some song and he dropped the n word. i immeadietly was like "dude wtf you can't say that" and he was like "wait what why?" he didnt know it was racist and he said he said it all the time. he didn't say it to be racist, he just didn't know that the word was bad. also i feel like it's been two years. we should give the guy a second chance+he's been doing stuff to reform in that sense
for the nudes thing, i think that 16 and 14 is bad, but they were both minors at the time. you can argue that if you're 16, you're old enough to know not to ask for nudes from a 14yr old, but they were both minors. i swear the val community is so two faced. i thought that if you're both under 18, the only thing you can say is that it's weird, not pedophilia. also, it was a two year age gap, not a 5 year.
you can choose not to like the guy, but wanting to cancel him and call him a pedo is insane. just give the fucker a second chance and the second he does something bad, we can all jump on him