Does it matter in high school? And don’t say the shit out of movies where it doesn’t matter cause like I wanna have fun and go to parties I don’t wanna just sit at home playing valorat all day
i never understood america's school system, but if youre 15/16, you should start caring about your looks and how you act. dont act like a bitch, act like sinatraa or something, take care of your face, your hair, your drip, your grades, your social life, your friends, etc. in resumé, if you wanna be cool and popular, act it
Popularity is not as big of a deal but there still is people who are cool and lame, if you are a cool person and talk to alot of people you will get invited to parties but if you spend all day playing Valorant or watching tiktok or whatever and don’t talk to anybody than you won’t get invited to anything it’s as simple as that.
Depends what is considered popular in your high school. In mine it was drugs and binge drinking. Once high school was over we were all fucked and the so called "nerds" went to college (where the real fun is), started their careers, etc. Literally the best advice is to just be yourself. If your in a situation where your unhappy with yourself, we've all been there, than be honest with yourself and make the changes necessary to become who you want to be.
My take & conclusion(from what I have seen)
Nope all those "cool" & "popular" guys in my school are fucked rn they are struggling in their career or some of them doesn't even have anything which they can describe as career. Best option would be to focus on your career in these years(these are most crucial years). Career doesn't only mean academics it could also be sports or your passion but keep academics in check in case your career choice doesn't work out.