What is love? what is attraction? like im autistic so I dont fully understand it
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I gotta assume you're a super young kid but its an irrational feeling more than anything else. Not irrational because its wrong but irrational in the sense that its very difficult to explain, what love means to someone is going to vary person to person. Me explaining what love is to me won't be the same as someone else explaining what love is to them. Its sort of a "when you know, you know" type of thing. I can say I've felt the "love" I think you're talking about two times so far in my life, one of the times being with my current partner. But there are other forms of love as well, not just with a significant other. Why are you asking this question on vlr and not talking with your parents or something about this dawg I shouldn't be the one giving you the answers
You're fine man, your question is just super general. I'll tackle your other question now while I'm at it, but its going to be a lot of the same thing as its also a general question. Attraction is really only something you can define for yourself. Types of attraction can usually be physical and or emotional, but usually it should be a healthy mix of both with one side not outweighing the other.
Take this quiz and it will probably help you figure out how you want to receive love and how you prefer to give love too. This lowkey helps in the dating pool too because I can say for certain being emotional aware of yourself is a quality not too many people have nowadays.
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