You're fine man, your question is just super general. I'll tackle your other question now while I'm at it, but its going to be a lot of the same thing as its also a general question. Attraction is really only something you can define for yourself. Types of attraction can usually be physical and or emotional, but usually it should be a healthy mix of both with one side not outweighing the other.
Take this quiz and it will probably help you figure out how you want to receive love and how you prefer to give love too. This lowkey helps in the dating pool too because I can say for certain being emotional aware of yourself is a quality not too many people have nowadays.