I wanna talk to this girl but im afraid, how to approach, i know she plays valorant, we are in college btw
hey, sorry I saw your profile and I just thought you looked cute in your picture, I really wanted to tell you that)) It’s really rare to see girls playing video games haha! I don’t know why its a guy thing honestly im like really against misogyny and like ill be the one in the kitchen making sandwiches. We should really play l4d2 sometime its a really cool zombie game with a lot of scary moments, but don’t worry ill be there to protect you :wink: sorry that wasnt flirting I swear Im just trying to be friendly I really like your profile picture sorry was that too far? Really sorry i’m really shy I don’t go out much haha add me on skype we should talk more you look really nice and fun xxx
women are temporary, go play ranked and reach radiant
jokes aside, just find reasons to talk to her, if you are in the same class ask her questions about the course work, if you are in the same club talk about the club with her if in the same friend group go out more and start initializing events to do,
or just walk up to her and talk about how hot cned is
If talking is all you're looking for, why not just go up to her, introduce yourself like a normal person, tell her that you know she plays Valorant, and offer to play together sometime? If you aren't looking for anything romantic, then there you have it. If you are, you could easily build fond memories by playing together.
How do you generally approach random dudes? (like how do you approach people normally)
I personally think the best ways to start a conversation are
Ask a question
Compliment -> preferably something they likely put a lot of work into like their skill in an instrument or something but honestly anything works usually for a simple conversation
Also what Prancer said makes sense, try to find commonalities between you two (Idk about Valorant I've never used it as a talking point so that's experimental x-x)
However, I am not a woman :C
So I suppose I am not the intended audience.
if you're friends already then literally just ask her to do stuff, you don't have to say it's a date just anything.
if you haven't even interacted yet, your best bet is to just ask her about work/study etc. do that often enough and you will naturally start talking about other shit and become friends.
Give us something more to work with. How do you know she plays val? Is she in the game room playing val or did she share it in a presentation in class?
With the information I have, I can only assume you guys are in a class together. Sorry to break it to you but unless you guys are partners in a project or something it’s most likely cooked. The only window of opportunity you have is showing up early and hoping she shows up early to class so you can chat in the hallway. Your best bet might be to join your schools val team and ask if she wants to join. (Most schools have b and c teams for the bronze players)
Only realistic answer. Guys gotta remember that girls dont exist in a vacuum, you might like her but there's like 1000 variables between you two, including other guys who she might actually like already. Dude should shoot his shot directly imo instead of trying to force a friendship or just do his own thing and naturally end up talking to her.