by saying something personal and potentially embarrasing about you in a general setting
even though you've clearly indicated that you don't want the said shit shared
are they still your friend
are u asking for advice for a situation? i dont think here is the right place but in my humble opinion depends if ur friendship is a i prick u off u prick me off bitta banter or more genuine stuff
Have this conversation with them and not an online forum anonymously man, if they're your friend they will meaningfully participate and that will reveal itself through an actual heart-to-heart
Then there's your answer man, not much more to it
If you're reaching out to a friend to have a serious conversation about how you feel disrespected by them and they're directly ducking it... I'll let you fill in the blanks
Sorry to hear they behaved that way towards you, that's tough