how are yall working out long distance?

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idkmanwth

ik 90% people in here are single but those of yall who arent and are in a long distance relationship, what do you guys do to work it out?

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uwukitten

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give up, long distance relationships have an extremely low chance of working and I can guarantee you're not him. hope this helps 👍

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idkmanwth

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mine's not technically long distance, we were in the same city for a year, now we have to be in different cities for a year lol

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uwukitten

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oh that can work out then 🗿

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idkmanwth

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im trying my best ngl

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danii1

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u just gotta push through and believe in eachother man

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akimb0_

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you got to reaaaally trust your partnet, and vice versa. otherwise its not going to work

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idkmanwth

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we both trust each other like a lot a lot, we're doing alright just wanted to know what other people do so i can try them out aswell

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Axeldeboy

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trying other people is exactly what not to do when you gain someones trust

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Number1Joshie

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Visit them on weekends

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Its unhealthy for people in my opinion. I've had numerous friends who were in those, and their relationships either stagnated and they just eventually get bored of each other or they get so mentally broken down and depressed, it affects them badly on a daily basis.

Obviously the exception to this is if you already know each other and have met each other in real life and are NOW in a long distance situation. But for the majority who just meet and are doing everything online, simply not worth it and unhealthy for you in the long run.

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how far is long distance

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idkmanwth

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the point where you cant meet each other physically on a daily/weekly basis

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Number1Joshie

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play games together like terraria

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idkmanwth

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we watch movies instead lol

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Number1Joshie

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That's works, but there's tons of low-cost games like that if u want to do something more interactive

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Shawn23

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trust is #1!!

How long have you been dating ?

Is moving in together an option? feel like this is a must eventually if it’s long distance

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idkmanwth

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we're gonna reach 2 years, and no we cant move in together for like another 4-5 years

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Shawn23

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damn if you don’t mind me asking why so long?

For me that’s like marriage time, I think if it was me i’d like to be moved in by a year or 2.

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idkmanwth

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cuz, im in college rn

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juho

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just gotta believe and hope. Trust is #1

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Epicgamer69

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how tf do long distance relationships even begin like are yall just edating or what

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TheLoque

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most couples started off by meeting from an event or going to the same school, and then both need to go their college or home at different cities, states, or even countries... most people

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Epicgamer69

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just break up bro

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just break up bro

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idkmanwth

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i aint retarded to lose a 10 and visit strip clubs everyday when im older

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W

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Epicgamer69

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seems like you made your mind up already

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idkmanwth

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i have, i aint in this relationship for fun, i just made this thread to know what things couples do while in long distance

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Epicgamer69

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fair nuff

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valorant_player

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Wouldn't know, I only work out in person

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Hey man, I’m single, but I have a younger sibling who’s in a relationship, and what I am sure about is that love is a powerful emotion that is hard to get rid of. If you love her and she loves you then there’s no doubt that it’s going to work out. It only seems difficult because lots of people don’t find their soulmates through long distance, but remember that not all face to face relationships work out either.
tldr: true love knows no bounds and conquers all, whether it be a short stroll to their house or a flight across the world

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Communicate daily (chat, vidcalls sometimes), and have a tangible plan for when we can meet again (every yr or few months or so). We sometimes ate together on vidcall & play games together. If possible maybe send each other food/gifts sometimes. What I didn't but should've: know emergency contacts in the other end if things go south.

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I cant and wont speak for you but personally I can never go through with a long-distance relationship. You simply just dont know whats happening on the other half of the world. I would much rather prefer to be in a relationship with someone I could see everyday, not to mention the timezone differences. It's just impractical, and very high maintenance. But if ur comfortable with it go for it