everyone come here

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ShadowisBAD

my mental health is too bad. I have a very important exam coming (literally the most difficult engineering entrance exam in the world for high school kids).
I had a fight with my family and things arent going really well.
attempted suicide thrice (one landed me in ICU for 15 days).
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believe me this is not a joke. My life sucks

this was from GuiltyUpstairs , he is a vlr.gg user rn

While u pricks are fighting over NA , Eu bullshit
this man is going through hell
pray for him pls

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Indian Exams suck cock and balls

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true

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Hey. Thanks for the support everyone.
Your support gave me confidence. Hopefully I will clear that exam.( JEE exam decides your future in India)
Family issues suck tho. (my father had an affair for 7 years and wants to disown me)
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I've had depression for years but not a lot of people in my country take depression seriously.

(This is too embarrassing >< . Never shared this kind of personal stuff with anyone. Wont post anything for a few days >< )
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Once Again, thanks for your support. :)

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dude u dont need to post
post if u want to
its at ur own will
feel free to come back when u feel better

no problem
cuz i felt bad
cuz u issued this in a post at the bottom comments and many ppl wont see it
so i made a post
i hope i made u feel better

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JEE advanced?

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https://youtu.be/kRLktJm9mMA?t=28

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We all support you! Things will be better. Look for profesional help if you need.
Best of luck

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Aight

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Np
Remember
It doesn't matter if u don't make it
You tried ur best and that's all that matters.

P.s
If u have the $$$ money u could go to germany/ canada or something
Germany is cheaper
Better universities
A lot of practical exposure

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I don't know why but Jee exam doesn't mean everything haven't cleared it but doing little fine in life

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do you use the same username in reddit?

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ShadowisBAD

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Correction : Indian EDUCATION SUCK COCK AND BALLS

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true

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Gambit win

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Aight

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?
the parental pressure increases after all the fees they paid for the coaching

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Bhadwa

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was jk, it is a bait for sure, people don't share this type of stuff so easily

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Don't worry you ain't alone. Our education system is even worse.

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Dont worry GuiltyUpstairs know that i support you and you can nail that exam

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he will

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how did u know

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GuiltyUpstairs said it

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ShadowisBAD

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its in a vlr.gg post made my Sprouts called "the most important question" .
i aint gonna let this go in just a post , fuck no

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Prayge

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Indian education is depressing

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ShadowisBAD

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life in general is depressing ;/

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i disagree + didnt have to do crazy weird difficult exams in high school

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ShadowisBAD

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WELL I Have to
and its offline
and its MCQ so its harder
and i have exams on 25th ;/

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why does every indian say this? wtf are there no other career options where you dont have to study 25675 pages of textbooks?

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ShadowisBAD

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If only im allowed to
my dad says
oNlY sChOoL wILl lEaD u tO a SuCcEsSfUl lIfE

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i know some people here who do engineering, you got practical vocational universities and REAL theoretical universities and they dont have to do all that in advanced! i guess cuz its practical lower level stuff

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ShadowisBAD

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well see
first gotta get through these hard ass exams

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mens o777777777777

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TRUEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

ZERO PRACTICAL EXPOSURE IN MOST SCHOOLS/COLLEGES/UNIVERSITIES
LITERALLY ZERO

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u not alone buddy

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Just read somewhere that India’s quality of life atm is pretty bad :/ (probably because of ur guys’ insane exams)

Hope all you Indians are staying safe and healthy

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ShadowisBAD

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i have exams on 25th
goes on till 5th
life fucking sucks

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MilanTheMyth

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its a thing in all of Asia. I know some Malay friends who escaped it. How's it in Korea? heard suicide rates are high there.

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lemme start by saying this
there's a huge doctor, engineer obsession in india
everyone thinks that those are the most secure and $$$$$$$$$$$ jobs

so lemme ~~copy paste~~ explain what it is to the ones who do not know what this shit is

The Joint Entrance Examination (JEE) is an engineering entrance assessment conducted for admission to various engineering colleges(universities) in India.
they start studying for this since like 9th grade or even 8th grade or some parents even put their kids into coaching since 6th grade.
a lot of years of studying 12 hours a day or maybe even more under parental pressure.
this exam can get you into good universities other than the iit(1 percent acceptance rate btw)

my rant starts here

theres this institute named "iit"
its the best engineering institute of india
there are 23 of them in india
and have a 1 percent acceptance rate
but what about the 99 %?
suicidal thoughts, suicide attempts, depression after all the hard work and parental pressure.

this exam could get you into the best institute of india if ur amongst the 1 percent.
and india has a huge problem with bad engineering universities
there are loads of them in india
no practical exposure
just memorising shit from the textbook
A LOT OF ASSIGNMENTS
many are unemployed after getting the degree because they didnt learn anything properly

engineering is dogshit in india unless u get into a good university (only the iit and a few private ones)

there's only a few engineering universities that are better rather than the iit

1 percent acceptance rate and all the pressure from society, parents, relatives and shit.

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"just memorising shit from textbook"
EXACTLY MY DUDE, THEY DON'T EVEN DO PRACTIALS IN 10th (at least in my school)

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practicals in my school are;
writing an account of the "experiment" you have done in a book
they usually just copy from the nerds

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I mean its not the end of the world you can make money with alot of ways but why engineering toght, its not realy a guaranteed way to make money.

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soo in india
things are different
parents take the major decisions for u
for example
ur career
what stream you are gonna pick in 11th

because according to them
they are experienced and we, children are immature and they care about us so they dont want us to make the "wrong" decision

like i said
there's a huge engineering obsession in india
it's messed up
my parents want me to become an engineer while i have not even decided anything about my career rn
everything except engineer, doctor, lawyer, chartered accountant is seen as inferior

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"wrong" decision my ass you are gona waste years of your life and its not even guaranteed to finished in time, you will face with a teachers who doesnt even understand the class they have lecturing, the ones who doesnt even read the exam papers and give random notes, the ones that will never gona matter in real life.

I finished Administration Mangement last month it took my 6 years and i feel regret for not keeping my money and investing instead of listening those old idiots that hides inside the campus from real life.

You wanna be rich only thing you have to do is manage, save and invest your money. Just imagine doubling your money every year.

Im not saying dont go to univercity, you will surely learn things that you will acualy use in real life but most of the knowledge you learn is gona be nothing compare to the jobs that you can find. In the end all im saying is education cant save or guarantee your future only you can.

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more than 6000 languages in the world and this man chose to speak facts.

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Ikr

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Can't do shit its the culture
I wanna move out asap after I turn 18

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Its a shity idea you have a house you have a family even if they are pushing you they will still keep supporting you, what you should do is walk the road they are forcing you to walk. It might sound like stupit but there is huge possiblity that you will end up homeless by escaping from your family. Which if you end up homeless people will avoid hiring you which its even worst.

Just live the life that you have been given. Watch around you seize opportunities, be pozitive in the end you will be the one who is going to live your life not your family dont rush things dont make stupit decision and you will end up fine. But right now all you need to do is be patient. If you are realy 15 you acualy know nothing about life and you can only learn by living it.

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Hey handsome,
Didn't mean it like that
I wouldn't ever escape
I would sit down and have a discussion with them about going to a country with good universities on a student visa and get a part time job there to cover up the expenses

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Even I have cleared JEE ,it is not that difficult imo.
You might consider advance as difficult, but mains ain't that hard if you know your concepts well.

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well, many who have different interests are put into the coaching institues forcefully by their parents
they cant do shit about it
some parents work 2-3 shifts for the children just to pay the fees for them.

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You should have the guts to come out and speak for yourself. If you don't want to study just tell them ,afterall it's you who has to come up and become something in your life.

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I want to do engineering myself but my friend didnt want to, both of his sisters are iitians and he has no interest in it, but still bc of his family pressure he has to do engineering its not a choice, what will u say to people like these. Even if u tell ur parents in these situations they will just shrig it off and then blame you for not studying properly when u dont get into the top unis, very depressing

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True but that's where the emotional blackmail steps in and also
I had this friend who was like
I dont wanna become a doctor

Her parents said, become a doctor or we will marry you off.
Legit had no other option

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praying for him, things will get better bro.

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same . sucide is not an option iam also praying for him

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This is really sad man. Praying for him.

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skrossi will save him

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I suffered from anxiety when completing a stem degree, only know I had it until few months after graduation. Every exam I always thought I would fail but ended up passing the exam. Try your best and trust yourself. Stay positive bro.

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Indian education sucks dude. I am so fortunate that i was born in a good household that can afford to send me abroad for my higher studies .