No, it's not a wrong place to ask about lifting.
You do choose one thing at a time and then rotate. I mean, you'd alternate between cutting (losing weight) and bulking (gaining weight) phases. When you bulk, you gain weight/muscles, and when you cut, you lose FAT but also some muscles - it's like taking two steps forward (bulking) and one step back (cutting) then --> REPEAT.
In this way, your abs will be clear during cutting phases, and you will gain muscle without worrying about abs during bulking phases. - There should be no visible abs during classic bulking periods as calories excess is present... By classic, I mean close to dirty bulking but with a moderate fat level intake. --> If you're wondering what dirty bulking is, it's eating anything, including pizzas, burgers, and anything with an excess of saturated fat.
Swimming is a good activity - I am a trained swimmer myself, btw. It wouldn't make you BIG, but it is still a good activity for overall health and during cutting - also playing football is not too bad for cutting but be careful with injuries.
BIG arms require a particular environment, such as what weight training" facilities provide, because after you go over a certain point, you'll need some HEAVY stuff to activate your growth. So, a membership will be an excellent start - I'm amazed you're even asking about this because it's one of the most important aspects of having BIG arms. Though it's a good thing you've started thinking about your options👍
Regarding your food, simply consume three normal meals every day and try not to skip the timetables, since your body watches your intakes as well. However, three GOOD meals, particularly RICH BREAKFAST - any first meal upon waking from long sleep, will enough. You could also add some more carbs. And forget about counting protein and rest of the BS - just get used to eating and keep normally eating, because it sounds to mee, you haven't begun eating properly. Also ABS will be out of the question <-- seriously quit SIMPING those abs, I mean it.
Some misconceptions:
- "ive read that its built in kitchen etc" - That is manly said about muscle gain since you must first cook/eat and then rest.
- "will those sports especially swimming help me make any of my muscles big?" - If you're talking about football and swimming, then no, they won't make your muscles bigger but fitter <-- they will improve your general health, which isn't a terrible thing in and of itself, in my opinion.
- "people on gaming forums could never give you proper advice on lifting.... and pulling chicks" -- a bit off topic here-------> HOWEVER, these are both WRONG conceptions 😉
inb4: My weight: 220lbs during cutting/up to 245lbs during bulking phase... Bodyfat: 11-14% range during cutting/up to 17% during bulking... Arms: last time measured around 18.5"
penor = humongous... I am mentioning this ONLY because my CANADIANS pugboy and his bf tomato211222 have asked on multiple occassions.