finding out about P, or not, would you make that decision again?
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this is a general list, it can happen to anyone, not everyone is like you who is immune to symptoms like these, porn is absolutely not necessary to break the barrier, its not an excuse, you can learn as you go along since there is no blame on you. everyone has a first time.
you become desensitized to real intimacy,
you say "its my fault if it happens to me" what about a person who has never seen porn, or does not watch it?
imagine you are a girl in a relationship, you would assume that your bf is not getting satisfied since he has to watch porn to fullfil the urges, it causes insecurity for her, and ruins her self esteem,
then, you spin the argument on her, saying she doesnt satisfy you, which was the result of you being desensitized by the unrealistic standards. do you see my point?
you can masturbate without porn you degen
How do you think they used to do back in the day before pictures or videos were invented
how do you think many women do it today? 90% of us don't watch porn.
Mans is talking about the negatives porn and you insta go "masturbation has way more benefits", like sure maybe, you don't need porn for that. You're just polluting your mind.
Stop watching porn, and never ever waste your hard earned money on some fucking onlyfans, that is like the bottom of the barrel for a man.
Good luck.
bruh be fr do you seriously imagine that you're going to learn how to do ANYTHING that makes your girl happy from porn? There's a reason they're called actors. 90% of porn that is made is made for men and what they want and what they think looks cool...women don't like half the stuff in porn, not even the actresses. Anyway I mean jesus christ look at half of the porn on even the most mainstream sites half of it is "barely legal girl" or "dominating my slut gf" or "while my stepsister was sleeping". If you "learn" a single thing from that, you need to unlearn it ASAP.
fr, children are at the golden age of shaping their entire future, and instead they get caught up in it, its habit forming and its much easier to get addicted at that age than an adult, if you do not have protocols set to have a disciplined lifestyle, it can be hard to quit, discipline is crucial to be taught at a young age, cannot stress it enough.
its like sugar, kids love that stuff, but if they are taught discipline, they can apply to other stuff in life, like video games, school, family in the future, uni, relationships, etc