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Life is weird

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#1
Simp4S0m

You try to connect with your family and friends then realize you’re the only one putting in effort and everyone else only hit you up when they need something. Hahaha how’s everyone doing

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H3ENnZ
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Its like that sometimes hope ur doing gud

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H3ENnZ [#2]

Its like that sometimes hope ur doing gud

I’m fine. It is what it is. I’ve realized that it’s only me and my alcohol man 😭

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Prasinos
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You ok?

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Pooh
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It be like that sometimes but im sure they value you. Life is very good at making people busy in unimportant things and they get distracted away from real important relationships. Don't let that get to you ;)

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Simp4S0m [#3]

I’m fine. It is what it is. I’ve realized that it’s only me and my alcohol man 😭

Alcohol....?

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Pooh [#5]

It be like that sometimes but im sure they value you. Life is very good at making people busy in unimportant things and they get distracted away from real important relationships. Don't let that get to you ;)

That’s true, I know people are busy but I’m just tired of these conversations and then they proceed to say what they need. When I’m the one hitting them up they seem uninterested. I know they value me, that’s easy thing to do. I value a lot of users here. Well it is what it is, maybe I’m just boring xd

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Tbh it's easier to get used to being on your own than to expect people to always be interested in being friends with you

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Al-Mawsil
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thought u were talking about fpx life for a sec

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cloudberry
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If that's the case with your friends then there's two possibilities. Either they're bad friends, which tends to happen quite often, or you're too attached and expect too much of them, which is a personal issue a lot of people have had to deal with at some point, myself included. Either re-evaluate your friend group or try to reset your expectations of a friend, depending on how you feel the issue is playing out.

If that's the case with your family, then that's a bit tougher to deal with. There's not much you're telling us, and there's not much I'm comfortable asking because I respect your privacy, so my one out-there suggestion is to try to connect with them in a different way. Maybe instead of talking to them on the phone, you show up and be a present part of their lives. Maybe instead of just being there and having conversation, you find something nice to do with them. Again, not really sure about this one.

And I need to make this very clear: if you're struggling with your social life, the absolute WORST thing that you can do is become an alcoholic. Trust me when I say nothing good comes out of it.

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donkkomong
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That's how it is mate. Get rich and become successful then help out those you remember were good to you, and fuck the rest.

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Simp4S0m [#3]

I’m fine. It is what it is. I’ve realized that it’s only me and my alcohol man 😭

youre 12 what alcohol are you talking about 🤑

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Yeah, life is an interesting player cause he can solo win so many rounds but simultaneously solo lose them as well. I do think life is a good player but this playstyle identity leads to crazy inconsistency and makes you wonder if he's the best fit for an FPX team looking for titles, which needs crazy consistency

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life is shit, do smoke shit and yipiee

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Simp4S0m [#7]

That’s true, I know people are busy but I’m just tired of these conversations and then they proceed to say what they need. When I’m the one hitting them up they seem uninterested. I know they value me, that’s easy thing to do. I value a lot of users here. Well it is what it is, maybe I’m just boring xd

That's generic behaviour in many nowadays sadly. But you shouldn't let that get to your head and deem yourself as "boring" or "uninteresting". You should also look for people who don't keep you around for their benefit and stick to them, those are the real ones.

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