I've been talking to this goth girl recently, and I'm like REALLY into her and she is definitely interested in me romantically too. Tonight she told me shes going to a concert with a guy, so like, UGHHHHHHHH. I understand that doesnt mean shit but its still not great to hear since were not officially dating or even "exclusive" yet. Any idea or tips to distract myself while this goes on. I texted one of my friends about it, but he just called me schrondinger's cuck (i both am and am not being cucked, we dont knwo until we open the box).
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I've been talking to this goth girl recently, and I'm like REALLY into her and she is definitely interested in me romantically too. Tonight she told me shes going to a concert with a guy, so like, UGHHHHHHHH. I understand that doesnt mean shit but its still not great to hear since were not officially dating or even "exclusive" yet. Any idea or tips to distract myself while this goes on. I texted one of my friends about it, but he just called me schrondinger's cuck (i both am and am not being cucked, we dont knwo until we open the box).
alright, so it's just your mind being insecure about it.
So, during today while she's away, legitimately jerk off so you won't be horny and think about her, get some food afterward and play some games. That should keep your mind busy while she's back.
Now, after this is over, you'll want to talk to her about how u feel so this doesn't happen again (you being insecure about no exclusivity).
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I've been talking to this goth girl recently, and I'm like REALLY into her and she is definitely interested in me romantically too. Tonight she told me shes going to a concert with a guy, so like, UGHHHHHHHH. I understand that doesnt mean shit but its still not great to hear since were not officially dating or even "exclusive" yet. Any idea or tips to distract myself while this goes on. I texted one of my friends about it, but he just called me schrondinger's cuck (i both am and am not being cucked, we dont knwo until we open the box).
What? Don’t be sad, be firm and resolute. Don’t make half decisions don’t let her lead you on, if she doesn’t like you then you will have to leave that whole space, not worth to pursue something, unless you know certainly that you will have a positive result, otherwise you are only lying to yourself.
nothing wrong with having friends with the opposite sex, I have more girl friends than guy friends and like I dont even consider cheating ( my friends are so awesome and nice and they taught me how to consistently pick up alt girls and I love my friends) so like I understand that the guy friend habing shouldnt be an issue just how she told me last minute seems to be like the best way someone could intentially make me feel jealous or insecure
Imma be honest, this whole having friends of the opposite gender does not work out well in the long run, if they are attractive they are perceived as a threat by your significant other. Everyone gets hurt and causes unnecessary jealousy. The only way you will win is if you yourself become serious with that fact, and if she doesn’t, you know her stance.
Ok keep in mind, I live in america so this applies to my expirience and im super fuckign wasted.
- they just normal girls, they like what most girls like. Be confident in yourself and have pride in your hobbies and passions. Additionally as long as you arent physically repulsive youre attractive enough to date. Forinstance, Im 210 pounds 5'11 (Not super muscular, I have a minur gut) and I've dated MODELS.
- they have hobbies and interests, so learn about the stuff they like such as music and horror, they really appreciate shit like that. From my experience, alt girls love when I play my electric bass and talk about their favorite bands or movies with them.
- Every guy is a 7. As long as you dont have any major deformities, you can bad hot. I dont even mean body wise. Bath, shave, find a haircut that fits you, wear deoderant and cologne and most guys will be a 7/10. additionally wearing a flannel, white/light grey hoody and jeans is good enough fashion to pass in most situations
- Dont call them alt/goth. Its a fetish and girls dont like being fetishized. Trust me, I understand its hot, but they dont like it. Talk to them about normal stuff and you'll be good to go.
- Be liberal. Some guys will hate this, but most if not all of the alt girls ive been with either were at some point nonbinary/trans/lgbt or have friends who are. They like when guys respect pronouns and genders and such
- Know when to be dominant. Again, based on my experience, they usually like when you take initiative, so be the one to approach (not if theyre with friends, but if they're by themselfs go for it) and talk about meaningless shit. Be normal. then be the one to ask for contacts (insta, snap, number. whatever your age range dictates).
- Go to things they go to. Alt girls usually participate in alternative activities. Go to metal/punk concerts or avant garde art shit, thats what I do and I typically score a date from it.
For reference to my looks, my insta is @amboreal
This all seems horribly fake. You tell her what she wants to hear and get to sleep with her, no meaningful relationship is created based on trust. No wonder relationships don’t last. Be the best version of yourself(humble, hardworking, just, empathetic, truthful, stoic) and you won’t waste time fooling around with fake people.
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