I've been talking to this goth girl recently, and I'm like REALLY into her and she is definitely interested in me romantically too. Tonight she told me shes going to a concert with a guy, so like, UGHHHHHHHH. I understand that doesnt mean shit but its still not great to hear since were not officially dating or even "exclusive" yet. Any idea or tips to distract myself while this goes on. I texted one of my friends about it, but he just called me schrondinger's cuck (i both am and am not being cucked, we dont knwo until we open the box).
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zidmz [#2]get a giant tub of ice cream, lock your bedroom door, play sad music, cry until the concerts over
great idea, got a playlist recomendation
I've been talking to this goth girl recently, and I'm like REALLY into her and she is definitely interested in me romantically too. Tonight she told me shes going to a concert with a guy, so like, UGHHHHHHHH. I understand that doesnt mean shit but its still not great to hear since were not officially dating or even "exclusive" yet. Any idea or tips to distract myself while this goes on. I texted one of my friends about it, but he just called me schrondinger's cuck (i both am and am not being cucked, we dont knwo until we open the box).
ambo69 [#8]great idea, got a playlist recomendation
put lonely by akon on loop
(preferably sped up)
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SAMPV6 [#13]Look, so are you 100% sure she's into you? Did she ask you to go to the concert with her at some point?
Cause, it could be that you're just taking the wrong hints my guy.
met after she made plans for the concert, and i know 100% for a fact based on stuff we did
DarKnight007 [#16]Invite the boys for movie night, the homies will come thru :)
sadly i came back from college a week before they do
jkjkjk [#18]Be direct, ask her if she'd want to go out with you at a later time (eg: in a few days or whatever). But ask the question before the concert, and tell her she can decide after (that way she's thinking about it during it). Then play valorant all night and ignore everything until tomorrow
concert is already happening, I plan to just let things be while she's there. no one wants their phone spammed while at a concert
ambo69 [#17]met after she made plans for the concert, and i know 100% for a fact based on stuff we did
alright, so it's just your mind being insecure about it.
So, during today while she's away, legitimately jerk off so you won't be horny and think about her, get some food afterward and play some games. That should keep your mind busy while she's back.
Now, after this is over, you'll want to talk to her about how u feel so this doesn't happen again (you being insecure about no exclusivity).
inlucid [#21]"schrondinger's cuck" thats a good one KKKK
thanks, ill let my friend know. shed appreciate that
SAMPV6 [#22]alright, so it's just your mind being insecure about it.
So, during today while she's away, legitimately jerk off so you won't be horny and think about her, get some food afterward and play some games. That should keep your mind busy while she's back.
Now, after this is over, you'll want to talk to her about how u feel so this doesn't happen again (you being insecure about no exclusivity).
...yeah that might be better than my plan to drink my dad's THC beer
ambo69 [#20]concert is already happening, I plan to just let things be while she's there. no one wants their phone spammed while at a concert
keep track of clock. it is currently 6:16 EST, i am assuming the concert started at 6:00. if she doesn't text you by 10:00, u lost
zidmz [#14]put lonely by akon on loop
(preferably sped up)
this song is actually fire, i added it to my rap playlist
zidmz [#25]keep track of clock. it is currently 6:16 EST, i am assuming the concert started at 6:00. if she doesn't text you by 10:00, u lost
concert starts at 7, but its an hour and a half drive away, i included the drive when i said it began
zidmz [#14]put lonely by akon on loop
(preferably sped up)
woke up in the middle of the night and I noticed my girl wasn’t by my side 😞
ambo69 [#24]...yeah that might be better than my plan to drink my dad's THC beer
you can still drink the THC beer tho
ambo69 [#27]concert starts at 7, but its an hour and a half drive away, i included the drive when i said it began
bro whatever you do do not watch season 15 episode 11 of south park.
ambo69 [#23]thanks, ill let my friend know. shed appreciate that
give her a +1 from me too, shit's gold
ambo69 [#35]seen 19 minutes ago!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! must be having the time of her life am i right fellas???
u said it was an hour drive to the concert....
bro, i don't mean to be the bearer of bad news...
zidmz [#36]u said it was an hour drive to the concert....
bro, i don't mean to be the bearer of bad news...
her friend is her ride
I've been talking to this goth girl recently, and I'm like REALLY into her and she is definitely interested in me romantically too. Tonight she told me shes going to a concert with a guy, so like, UGHHHHHHHH. I understand that doesnt mean shit but its still not great to hear since were not officially dating or even "exclusive" yet. Any idea or tips to distract myself while this goes on. I texted one of my friends about it, but he just called me schrondinger's cuck (i both am and am not being cucked, we dont knwo until we open the box).
eeeeeeeee [#40]Ask her out, if she says she wants to know you more than she isnt worth the time and effort!
I mean I already know she likes me bro...
ambo69 [#41]I mean I already know she likes me bro...
Exactly the point! Unloyalty to be spending time with another man and ghosting (unless they are already long time friends)!
zidmz [#2]get a giant tub of ice cream, lock your bedroom door, play sad music, cry until the concerts over
get Joji and Sir Knighten on that playlist too
xou6s [#44]ion think she likes u lil bro sorry to tell you, otherwise she prob woulda told u to go with her
she made the plans before we met and I know for a fact she likes me
ambo69 [#46]she made the plans before we met and I know for a fact she likes me
i think you should forget about girls and become a buddhist monk. you'll be way happier
xou6s [#47]i think you should forget about girls and become a buddhist monk. you'll be way happier
nah bro, ill take goth girls and head over buddhism any day
ambo69 [#49]I JUST CHECKED DOORS OPENED AT 7 AND THE CONCERT BEGAN AT 8 IM GOING INSANE. im just gonna go shower now im feeling depressed
keep your head up king 👑
ambo69 [#49]I JUST CHECKED DOORS OPENED AT 7 AND THE CONCERT BEGAN AT 8 IM GOING INSANE. im just gonna go shower now im feeling depressed
change your val user to i miss her and instalock jett
ambo69 [#49]I JUST CHECKED DOORS OPENED AT 7 AND THE CONCERT BEGAN AT 8 IM GOING INSANE. im just gonna go shower now im feeling depressed
Bro, tell her your stance and that you’re serious about the relationship. Take it seriously and she will take you seriously.
h786 [#52]Bro, tell her your stance and that you’re serious about the relationship. Take it seriously and she will take you seriously.
yeha i will bro, just i should do that when im bnot 12 drinks down and when shes at a concert
ambo69 [#53]yeha i will bro, just i should do that when im bnot 12 drinks down and when shes at a concert
12 drinks holy shit take a nap
batchestingveryhard [#54]12 drinks holy shit take a nap
nahhhh bro, i got my record player playung arctic monkeis and im watching netflix!!!!!!! the babysitter is SO bad
Just_some_loser [#55]Tf is with this cuckery shit on vlr. You said she likes you, but also that she's going with a male "friend" alone to a concert together? Not even a friend group? Develop some better taste in women brotha 💀💀
ive had sex wit hher more than youve had sex in your entire life
ambo69 [#53]yeha i will bro, just i should do that when im bnot 12 drinks down and when shes at a concert
What? Don’t be sad, be firm and resolute. Don’t make half decisions don’t let her lead you on, if she doesn’t like you then you will have to leave that whole space, not worth to pursue something, unless you know certainly that you will have a positive result, otherwise you are only lying to yourself.
ambo69 [#57]ive had sex wit hher more than youve had sex in your entire life
im sure you have, but i think the problem lies that she might be having sex with, or pursuing other ppl right in front of you, all while u guys are doing that
h786 [#58]What? Don’t be sad, be firm and resolute. Don’t make half decisions don’t let her lead you on, if she doesn’t like you then you will have to leave that whole space, not worth to pursue something, unless you know certainly that you will have a positive result, otherwise you are only lying to yourself.
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ambo69 [#57]ive had sex wit hher more than youve had sex in your entire life
You’ve already had sex? Then what’s wrong with you bro? Just go and tell her that you aren’t cool with her going out with other male friends, and if she was to continue then the little thing u have with her, is over. Don’t let her lead you on.
Just_some_loser [#59]im sure you have, but i think the problem lies that she might be having sex with, or pursuing other ppl right in front of you, all while u guys are doing that
i have girl friends, so she has every right to have guy firends, its just I was told this the day of when we arent exclusive or shit. I was just doing yard work and she says shes waiting for a boy to pick her up for the concert she told me she was excited about going to
ambo69 [#57]ive had sex wit hher more than youve had sex in your entire life
Nothing will chang,pe, unless you’re clear, you know the answer, you’ve already told us your situation and that you aren’t happy. All you need to do is tell her.
ambo69 [#63]i have girl friends, so she has every right to have guy firends, its just I was told this the day of when we arent exclusive or shit. I was just doing yard work and she says shes waiting for a boy to pick her up for the concert she told me she was excited about going to
Don’t have girl friends then, if you’re serious, show her that you’re serious about her.
h786 [#61]You’ve already had sex? Then what’s wrong with you bro? Just go and tell her that you aren’t cool with her going out with other male friends, and if she was to continue then the little thing u have with her, is over. Don’t let her lead you on.
nothing wrong with having friends with the opposite sex, I have more girl friends than guy friends and like I dont even consider cheating ( my friends are so awesome and nice and they taught me how to consistently pick up alt girls and I love my friends) so like I understand that the guy friend habing shouldnt be an issue just how she told me last minute seems to be like the best way someone could intentially make me feel jealous or insecure
ambo69 [#63]i have girl friends, so she has every right to have guy firends, its just I was told this the day of when we arent exclusive or shit. I was just doing yard work and she says shes waiting for a boy to pick her up for the concert she told me she was excited about going to
lmao, then u probably shudve jst written in the original post u guys are friends w benefits atm, and dont how to proceed
Just_some_loser [#68]lmao, then u probably shudve jst written in the original post u guys are friends w benefits atm, and dont how to proceed
well i mean when talking about shit she said shes very possesive and I assumed that works both ways
ambo69 [#67]nothing wrong with having friends with the opposite sex, I have more girl friends than guy friends and like I dont even consider cheating ( my friends are so awesome and nice and they taught me how to consistently pick up alt girls and I love my friends) so like I understand that the guy friend habing shouldnt be an issue just how she told me last minute seems to be like the best way someone could intentially make me feel jealous or insecure
You probably have a fear of being hypocritical then, you want her exclusively but aren’t ready to give up the friends that she might be jealous of 🤷♂️
h786 [#71]You probably have a fear of being hypocritical then, you want her exclusively but aren’t ready to give up the friends that she might be jealous of 🤷♂️
well i mean my bgirl friends are gay mostly and i dont just randomly say im hanging out with one alone
ambo69 [#72]well i mean my bgirl friends are gay mostly and i dont just randomly say im hanging out with one alone
Imma be honest, this whole having friends of the opposite gender does not work out well in the long run, if they are attractive they are perceived as a threat by your significant other. Everyone gets hurt and causes unnecessary jealousy. The only way you will win is if you yourself become serious with that fact, and if she doesn’t, you know her stance.
yaiima0 [#62]If she’s fucking you and hasn’t shown signs for wanting to be more then I think sadly you might just be a fwb to her. Why don’t u ask her directly what she wants.
if theyre fucking theres no way op is getting jealous about going to a concert with someone
ambo69 [#75]3 hours of no replies!!!!!!!!!!!!! i tried sleeping but um bad stuff. am thinking f doing a pokemon nuzlocke, but lmk any other ideas. Ithought about going for a walk, but i drink 12 beers around 7-8 and that doesnt seem tlike he best idea
Hit the gym lil bro. Drinking beer is a waste of time
Yessirskiiii [#76]Hit the gym lil bro. Drinking beer is a waste of time
brooooooo i literally workout serveral times a week
makoidk [#78]"schrodingers cuck" is brilliant LOL
ill let my friend know you appreciate it, shed like that!!!1!
ambo69 [#67]nothing wrong with having friends with the opposite sex, I have more girl friends than guy friends and like I dont even consider cheating ( my friends are so awesome and nice and they taught me how to consistently pick up alt girls and I love my friends) so like I understand that the guy friend habing shouldnt be an issue just how she told me last minute seems to be like the best way someone could intentially make me feel jealous or insecure
Can you share the secret of how to "consistently pick up alt girls" with us?
Bubububu [#82]Can you share the secret of how to "consistently pick up alt girls" with us?
You deadass want me to explainit?
batchestingveryhard [#84]what she say
That the concert was really fun!!! I'm happy she got to see her gavorote band!!!!
ambo69 [#85]That the concert was really fun!!! I'm happy she got to see her gavorote band!!!!
the band is called gavorote?
hanafuuji [#86]the band is called gavorote?
This gavorote band sounds good. I might have to buy tickets to their concert too
zidmz [#30]bro whatever you do do not watch season 15 episode 11 of south park.
nah bro gg he's fucked
Bubububu [#89]Yep. If I didn't i wouldn't have asked
Ok keep in mind, I live in america so this applies to my expirience and im super fuckign wasted.
- they just normal girls, they like what most girls like. Be confident in yourself and have pride in your hobbies and passions. Additionally as long as you arent physically repulsive youre attractive enough to date. Forinstance, Im 210 pounds 5'11 (Not super muscular, I have a minur gut) and I've dated MODELS.
- they have hobbies and interests, so learn about the stuff they like such as music and horror, they really appreciate shit like that. From my experience, alt girls love when I play my electric bass and talk about their favorite bands or movies with them.
- Every guy is a 7. As long as you dont have any major deformities, you can bad hot. I dont even mean body wise. Bath, shave, find a haircut that fits you, wear deoderant and cologne and most guys will be a 7/10. additionally wearing a flannel, white/light grey hoody and jeans is good enough fashion to pass in most situations
- Dont call them alt/goth. Its a fetish and girls dont like being fetishized. Trust me, I understand its hot, but they dont like it. Talk to them about normal stuff and you'll be good to go.
- Be liberal. Some guys will hate this, but most if not all of the alt girls ive been with either were at some point nonbinary/trans/lgbt or have friends who are. They like when guys respect pronouns and genders and such
- Know when to be dominant. Again, based on my experience, they usually like when you take initiative, so be the one to approach (not if theyre with friends, but if they're by themselfs go for it) and talk about meaningless shit. Be normal. then be the one to ask for contacts (insta, snap, number. whatever your age range dictates).
- Go to things they go to. Alt girls usually participate in alternative activities. Go to metal/punk concerts or avant garde art shit, thats what I do and I typically score a date from it.
For reference to my looks, my insta is @amboreal
ambo69 [#91]Ok keep in mind, I live in america so this applies to my expirience and im super fuckign wasted.
- they just normal girls, they like what most girls like. Be confident in yourself and have pride in your hobbies and passions. Additionally as long as you arent physically repulsive youre attractive enough to date. Forinstance, Im 210 pounds 5'11 (Not super muscular, I have a minur gut) and I've dated MODELS.
- they have hobbies and interests, so learn about the stuff they like such as music and horror, they really appreciate shit like that. From my experience, alt girls love when I play my electric bass and talk about their favorite bands or movies with them.
- Every guy is a 7. As long as you dont have any major deformities, you can bad hot. I dont even mean body wise. Bath, shave, find a haircut that fits you, wear deoderant and cologne and most guys will be a 7/10. additionally wearing a flannel, white/light grey hoody and jeans is good enough fashion to pass in most situations
- Dont call them alt/goth. Its a fetish and girls dont like being fetishized. Trust me, I understand its hot, but they dont like it. Talk to them about normal stuff and you'll be good to go.
- Be liberal. Some guys will hate this, but most if not all of the alt girls ive been with either were at some point nonbinary/trans/lgbt or have friends who are. They like when guys respect pronouns and genders and such
- Know when to be dominant. Again, based on my experience, they usually like when you take initiative, so be the one to approach (not if theyre with friends, but if they're by themselfs go for it) and talk about meaningless shit. Be normal. then be the one to ask for contacts (insta, snap, number. whatever your age range dictates).
- Go to things they go to. Alt girls usually participate in alternative activities. Go to metal/punk concerts or avant garde art shit, thats what I do and I typically score a date from it.
For reference to my looks, my insta is @amboreal
if you have more questions pls wait until I sober up
ambo69 [#91]Ok keep in mind, I live in america so this applies to my expirience and im super fuckign wasted.
- they just normal girls, they like what most girls like. Be confident in yourself and have pride in your hobbies and passions. Additionally as long as you arent physically repulsive youre attractive enough to date. Forinstance, Im 210 pounds 5'11 (Not super muscular, I have a minur gut) and I've dated MODELS.
- they have hobbies and interests, so learn about the stuff they like such as music and horror, they really appreciate shit like that. From my experience, alt girls love when I play my electric bass and talk about their favorite bands or movies with them.
- Every guy is a 7. As long as you dont have any major deformities, you can bad hot. I dont even mean body wise. Bath, shave, find a haircut that fits you, wear deoderant and cologne and most guys will be a 7/10. additionally wearing a flannel, white/light grey hoody and jeans is good enough fashion to pass in most situations
- Dont call them alt/goth. Its a fetish and girls dont like being fetishized. Trust me, I understand its hot, but they dont like it. Talk to them about normal stuff and you'll be good to go.
- Be liberal. Some guys will hate this, but most if not all of the alt girls ive been with either were at some point nonbinary/trans/lgbt or have friends who are. They like when guys respect pronouns and genders and such
- Know when to be dominant. Again, based on my experience, they usually like when you take initiative, so be the one to approach (not if theyre with friends, but if they're by themselfs go for it) and talk about meaningless shit. Be normal. then be the one to ask for contacts (insta, snap, number. whatever your age range dictates).
- Go to things they go to. Alt girls usually participate in alternative activities. Go to metal/punk concerts or avant garde art shit, thats what I do and I typically score a date from it.
For reference to my looks, my insta is @amboreal
additionally i forgot to memntion, my girl friends mention that I have a joyous whimsy charm to me, as in I always look like Im having a wholesome and good time, which girkls typiucally appreciate
ambo69 [#91]Ok keep in mind, I live in america so this applies to my expirience and im super fuckign wasted.
- they just normal girls, they like what most girls like. Be confident in yourself and have pride in your hobbies and passions. Additionally as long as you arent physically repulsive youre attractive enough to date. Forinstance, Im 210 pounds 5'11 (Not super muscular, I have a minur gut) and I've dated MODELS.
- they have hobbies and interests, so learn about the stuff they like such as music and horror, they really appreciate shit like that. From my experience, alt girls love when I play my electric bass and talk about their favorite bands or movies with them.
- Every guy is a 7. As long as you dont have any major deformities, you can bad hot. I dont even mean body wise. Bath, shave, find a haircut that fits you, wear deoderant and cologne and most guys will be a 7/10. additionally wearing a flannel, white/light grey hoody and jeans is good enough fashion to pass in most situations
- Dont call them alt/goth. Its a fetish and girls dont like being fetishized. Trust me, I understand its hot, but they dont like it. Talk to them about normal stuff and you'll be good to go.
- Be liberal. Some guys will hate this, but most if not all of the alt girls ive been with either were at some point nonbinary/trans/lgbt or have friends who are. They like when guys respect pronouns and genders and such
- Know when to be dominant. Again, based on my experience, they usually like when you take initiative, so be the one to approach (not if theyre with friends, but if they're by themselfs go for it) and talk about meaningless shit. Be normal. then be the one to ask for contacts (insta, snap, number. whatever your age range dictates).
- Go to things they go to. Alt girls usually participate in alternative activities. Go to metal/punk concerts or avant garde art shit, thats what I do and I typically score a date from it.
For reference to my looks, my insta is @amboreal
This all seems horribly fake. You tell her what she wants to hear and get to sleep with her, no meaningful relationship is created based on trust. No wonder relationships don’t last. Be the best version of yourself(humble, hardworking, just, empathetic, truthful, stoic) and you won’t waste time fooling around with fake people.
h786 [#97]This all seems horribly fake. You tell her what she wants to hear and get to sleep with her, no meaningful relationship is created based on trust. No wonder relationships don’t last. Be the best version of yourself(humble, hardworking, just, empathetic, truthful, stoic) and you won’t waste time fooling around with fake people.
sorry it comes across that way, but i genuinely do all of this, and i liek the things that i say they like already. As i said this comes from my experience. And im drunk
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