I would actively encourage you to reread your post. I'll use a buzzword that you probably hate, but your post reeks of privilege. This is very clear by your statement of "but most of the time i don't absorb any of these social justice issues because frankly it doesn't effect me". Simply because something doesn't affect you directly doesn't mean that you shouldn't care about it. This is the kind of selfish thinking that results in these hateful concepts being allowed to propagate out of ignorance.
Ask yourself this: If you saw someone attempt to kick a dog to death would you intervene? You could argue that if you saw it happen it affected you, but what if it was behind a closed door? Social justice isn't a visibility problem, you don't get to ignore it just because you choose to not see it, because there are people actively living it. Take your fingers out of your ears.
You state that you would rather have people sit down and debate you without judgement and bias, but how am I supposed to have a debate like that with a person who writes "i would rather just let that person believe what they want to believe and i'll go on holding my values strong", like what am I supposed to convince you of at that point?
I understand you don't mess with people who insult you, but your first reply literally was an insult.