Valorant ranked playerbase ratio of men-to-women - 1:5 at worst.
Valorant radiant / immortal playerbase ratio of men-to-women who tryhard, grind the game many hours per day, and aspire to become pro - around 1:100, maybe even worse (for women).
The proof is right there. A lot of women play games, as you say - participate in video games. But just very few of them decide to push further. And it won't change anywhere in the future. Men are on average much more willing to work hard in video games. That can't be altered.