I have a friend that I’ve known since we were 5 years old. When we were kids we would hang out every weekend with a few other kids. Then we went to the same high school and we hung out almost every day. After school, a few of us would usually go eat and then go back to his house to hang out some more.
One of my friend’s favorite things to do is watch movies, and he loves having friends over to watch movies.
I’m a grown adult now with a job, and honestly it just feels old going to his place and hanging out. Last Saturday night, he asked me to come over to watch a movie, but I just wanted to stay home and play Valorant. I don’t even like watching movies that much.
Also, we usually get dinner or lunch every week, so I do see him frequently. I just don’t want to hang out as much as I did when I was younger.
Basically the only person I would want to hang out a lot with would be my future girlfriend lol. I’m just feeling a bit smothered, and am feeling guilty for choosing to play Valorant over hanging out with my friend all the time. Anyone have any tips?