I (24M) am living with my wife (26F) and she eats a lot. Yesterday she was eating all day non stop, so I made us a dinner, I told her "Hey babe dinner time" and she went to dining table. I called her after eating my food so when she came to dining table I took her plate and ate it in front of her. She cried and called me asshole. I said I was just helping her lose weight. She said she's American and it's normal to be fat. AITA?