i want to love someone
i want to be loved
i want to cry on a shoulder
i want to be a shoulder to cry on
i want to hug
i want to be hugged
Why is it so hard to find love..
you have the desire; everyone does, how will you stand out from all, to make sure that you achieve your goal?
before you decide, ask yourself, how is your relationship with your family, and friends (friends that would have your back in a horrible situation, friends that tell you right from wrong, friends that encourage you to be better, friends that are better than you. )
you need to be stable with this first.
If you want a good woman, you gotta be a good man. That simple. If you aren't attractive looksmax and then learn how to talk to ppl. Start off js tryna make friends then work ur way up to tryna get girls. Rizz can take even an ugly guy pretty far. I'd recommend hamza for looksmaxing. You also need to learn some realities of dating from a certain bald man who I can't say. I'm here to help my friend!
take good care of yourself first, I know it sounds like "papo de coach" but it's true.
If going to the gym is a possibility for you, go.
Try to shave your beard and keep a cool hairstyle, try to buy a nice smelling soap, try to find out what clothes fit you well and make you look better.
It's crazy how these things kinda attract people.
After you've taken good care of yourself, I promise things get easier.
It's crazy how these things kinda attract people.
true. think of it as upgrading your PC. this is truly nerdy but u get the point
better graphics card +30 FPS
go gym, fix posture +30 FPS
better hygiene +30 FPS
good clothing +15 FPS
intellectual upgrade +50 FPS - know what you are talking about it, be confident. dont be someone halfway, women want someone who takes control. they want someone who will lead them, protect them, be morally good for their kids, every woman thinks "will this guy be a good father to my kids?"
know about everything, even if you aren't fully versed in it, just know, be present with the world, be up to date with current affairs. have a plan, have a goal. have a vision of the future. what am i going to be in 5-10 years time? what do i want to be? act towards that goal. don't just be a bum and go with the flow. be a man who takes action.
be trustworthy, honest, loyal and upright, envelop a good work ethic - +100 FPS this is self explanatory and the most important, but everyone wants someone who is reliable. in the end, your family will rely on you, and you have to be the man, be the leader of the household. if you dont take that mantle, someone else will fill that role, and you do NOT want that to happen. so be upright and honest. honestly if you get this right, you will gravitate to doing all the other stuff too.
anyways, rant over, but i just went over a few things.