So basically me and this girl were going to get food, and we had everything set up, but when it came to it I didn't go because I had never been on a date, and I was lowkey nervous coz we didn't text like that beforehand, so I was just meeting to get food with a stranger. I think this girl is attractive and all and would get food now because I grew some balls, but the only problem is I ghosted her about two months ago, so should I just move on?
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moatz [#2]Move on jit
Ai, bruh, she was into me and everything, but understandable. I'll do that 😞 .
SquareMars [#3]I think you should move on and meet other people. It's not necessarily your fault, different people have different chemistry. Also it would be kind of awkward.
Yeah, true. Thanks for the advice.
moatz [#6]On a real note, u should've at least came up with an excuse as to why u couldn't make it or smtng instead of ghosting them
Bro, I got nervous and just deleted Snapchat as a whole 😭.
BBC1 [#7]Bro, I got nervous and just deleted Snapchat as a whole 😭.
deleting the app is a retarded move..
unless you mean deleted your account which is better but still bad
kanyefan4238173 [#8]deleting the app is a retarded move..
unless you mean deleted your account which is better but still bad
Nah I deleted my account.
BBC1 [#9]Nah I deleted my account.
ohh okay thats better
one time i got a snap from a girl and i didnt want to open it because then id have to reply so i deleted my account too 😂
yaiima0 [#11]Why the fuck did u ghost her?
Well, the major reason was that I was nervous, but there was an incident where she hooked up with a person I don't really like that was at the back of my mind the whole time she was snapping at me.
Vortexy [#12]Move on, no need to invest time and energy into someone you barely know and have no clue of knowing if it will work out. Obviously, it's easier for us to say to move on through some online forum and you may still want to give it a chance, but that's my advice 🫡 good luck soldier
Yea, lowkey true I'll find somebody else, I guess.
BBC1 [#13]Well, the major reason was that I was nervous, but there was an incident where she hooked up with a person I don't really like that was at the back of my mind the whole time she was snapping at me.
if she stopped hooking up w that person well before talking with you, then its kind of unfair to use that as reasoning to ghost her. much like how you'd probably hate to be ghosted, you definitely hurt her feelings and should apologize, but there is no way you get another chance
BBC1 [#13]Well, the major reason was that I was nervous, but there was an incident where she hooked up with a person I don't really like that was at the back of my mind the whole time she was snapping at me.
dodged a bullet there imo go next brother 💪
BBC1 [#13]Well, the major reason was that I was nervous, but there was an incident where she hooked up with a person I don't really like that was at the back of my mind the whole time she was snapping at me.
All good, can’t change the past.
In my opinion, if you're really attracted to her, go for it. What's the worse that could happen? Possibly a rejection, but it's going to be a life lesson for you, and the next time, you'll be way more confident. You're confidence will start when you're not scared of rejection, because that's what holds us men to go from asking that cute girl passing right by you for a date.
Subreezy [#15]if she stopped hooking up w that person well before talking with you, then its kind of unfair to use that as reasoning to ghost her. much like how you'd probably hate to be ghosted, you definitely hurt her feelings and should apologize, but there is no way you get another chance
True IDK how I would apologize other than DMing her, so I guess I'll move on, to be honest. Furthermore, I lowkey told all my friends I was talking to her, and they all looked down on me, so I was like, OK I will stop talking to her, looking back, it was a stupid move as I genuinely think we both had feelings for each other.
BBC1 [#23]Update: I apologized to her, and she said it was fine and not to worry about it. Thanks for the help, guys.
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BBC1 [#23]Update: I apologized to her, and she said it was fine and not to worry about it. Thanks for the help, guys.
First text after you stood her up? Are you asking her out again tho?
AvgRossiFan [#25]First text after you stood her up? Are you asking her out again tho?
No, probably not. It's too much of a headache, and she probably doesn't want me.
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