Dating Help

Im talking to this guy for something like a week. Sometimes he takes long to respond (like a day) but his responses are always filled with so many things (its not like bs conversation). I asked him out and he said that I should chose the day, I replied now, idk what he is going to say. What are my chances, I need VLR community to help out.

if a guy takes that long to respond, i'll quit if i was you.

What are your chances for what?

Didn’t he accept?

Aren’t you guys just choosing the day now?

Though not always, usually people that take that long to respond aren't that interested. Let's be honest, no one is busy enough to not be able to reply to one text in a whole day. It literally takes like one minute. But if you asked him out and he agreed then I don't see the issue. See how the date goes first

Getting dating advice from people in this website is self sabotage 💀

my dating advice is to just keep doing what you think is right and learning
every situation and person is different
don't ask for advice online and especially not on vlr

what are u worried about, he said pick the day and u did, hes prolly gonna say where u wanna go for dinner or sum shi

you dont need vlr community.. this place is full of virgins sitting on the computer 12 hours a day. get off this site

Worst place to come for dating advice.

If he actually taking a whole day in between responses he ain’t interested. He may say yes to the date and stuff but he’s probably just tryna hookup. And if you’re in college he’s definitely talking to other girls as well. Not trying to sound like a dick I’m just being brutally honest and not trying to give you false hope

Sometimes he takes long to respond (like a day)

He's playing valorant and don't want to be bothered.

 I replied now

why now, why not tomorrow?

lol he doesn't seem that excited for the date, probably trying to hookup and call it a day

Might be a good chance tbh but dont let him smash insta, save it for postplant.

This honestly seems like a case of push and pull, its not uncommon
https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/gdpzz4/dont_use_the_pushpull_technique/

Whatever it is (hookup/serious) make sure you're both on the same page, so you don't feel lead on

Are you gay?

if your a girl then you have a 100% success rate.
if you are a guy then make sure hes gay too, id give u 45-55% odds, most gay relationships originate from close friendships from my experience.

You guys date?