I AM AN INTROVERT

I am an introvert
I have 2 friends
I don't talk in public places
I always try to avoid conversation
I don't know how to start a conversation

Is it good to be introvert
Or should I change

average NRG fan

Don't try and force yourself to be an extrovert not healthy and could lead to depression happened to me but wouldn't hurt to try and raise your confidence a little bit even if that means talking to strangers at a park or a bar depending on your age

once you raise your confidence life gets a lot easier

also getting a job helps a shit ton

pugboy [#3]

Don't try and force yourself to be an extrovert not healthy and could lead to depression happened to me but wouldn't hurt to try and raise your confidence a little bit even if that means talking to strangers at a park or a bar depending on your age

once you raise your confidence life gets a lot easier

also getting a job helps a shit ton

This

yes just change settings to extrovert

Most sociable nrg fan

No one is a 'introvert' or 'extrovert' by birth, socialising is a muscle, it's important to work it out,
if you 'lose energy' talking to ppl or w/e then make sure to use all your energy

2 close friends>100 friends
but especially if your in highschool rn, people move and grow apart, you should try to make more friends with different types of people, hedge your bets

Im also an introvert.

But you should know when to have a switch to becoming an extrovert and make conversations because conversation building + strengthening relationships is a big factor in the professional aspect of life. If you’re a crypto miner or sumshit you don’t need anything.

pugboy [#3]

Don't try and force yourself to be an extrovert not healthy and could lead to depression happened to me but wouldn't hurt to try and raise your confidence a little bit even if that means talking to strangers at a park or a bar depending on your age

once you raise your confidence life gets a lot easier

also getting a job helps a shit ton

My confidence is good

But I am afraid to start a conversation even if it's necessary for me

Nyaa same 🐱
We are just cats living in world full of dogs (extrovert)

Commonw_pro [#9]

My confidence is good

But I am afraid to start a conversation even if it's necessary for me

unfortunately that's the hard part

sometimes it's easier just to not overthink it and just start conversation shit goes a long way you really can meet some amazing and interesting people just by starting conversation on your own

getting a job should help with that

chick [#8]

Im also an introvert.

But you should know when to have a switch to becoming an extrovert and make conversations because conversation building + strengthening relationships is a big factor in the professional aspect of life. If you’re a crypto miner or sumshit you don’t need anything.

I am always afraid to start a conversation
I often thinks how would other people think and react which makes me more nervous

You are not an introvert. You are just a pussy tbh

Commonw_pro [#12]

I am always afraid to start a conversation
I often thinks how would other people think and react which makes me more nervous

I do the same.

But you need to get an attitude about who gives a shit, cuz ngl you think people would react weird but most of the times they don’t. And if they do react weirdly it’s THEM not YOU.

You deserve the world king, never let anyone take that from you

rinval [#13]

You are not an introvert. You are just a pussy tbh

Suck my dick.

A genuine guy wanted a genuine piece of advice, and this is what you say.

You’re the real pussy

Being fr, easiest way to become more confident on your social skills is to get a job in a store. Ofc idk your culture but surely in every customer service typa job you have to make some small talk and shi with the customers. Literally a cheat code to get you out of this zone of being afraid of talking to randoms.

chick [#15]

Suck my dick.

A genuine guy wanted a genuine piece of advice, and this is what you say.

You’re the real pussy

Own that fraud

chick [#15]

Suck my dick.

A genuine guy wanted a genuine piece of advice, and this is what you say.

You’re the real pussy

Clearly you are one of these so called pussies who have poor social skills since you live chronicaly online. If it hurts then fix it

chick [#15]

Suck my dick.

A genuine guy wanted a genuine piece of advice, and this is what you say.

You’re the real pussy

Own him ass

Just be who you are. If you're comfortable as an introvert then stay that way. At the end of the day nobody is really gonna care.

Thanks to everyone for nice words
I will try to implement it

Commonw_pro [#21]

Thanks to everyone for nice words
I will try to implement it

i gotchu broskie

if ur fine with being an introvert then be that way, dont listen to the people that makes u think being an introvert is lame. just be urself and try to find a few good friends u can rely to, 1-2 close ones are enough. and dont be ashamed of not being able to socialize.

pugboy [#3]

Don't try and force yourself to be an extrovert not healthy and could lead to depression happened to me but wouldn't hurt to try and raise your confidence a little bit even if that means talking to strangers at a park or a bar depending on your age

once you raise your confidence life gets a lot easier

also getting a job helps a shit ton

damn you really want to help him

read "quiet: the power of introverts in a world that can't stop talking". really helpful for understanding and accepting introversion

introvert is fine as long as you can also act normal in social situations. there is a middle ground