Hey guys, I recently talked with some friends about if it’s important for them if the girl they’re dating has a high bodycount and if it’s misogy to not accept it.
What are your thoughts about this topic?
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paul1778 [#2]It is just personal preference. It doesnt have anything to do with misogyny.
I should add, if they justify their „preferences“ with like „studies“ about pair bond.
For example that women who have slept with like 30-50 men have a less strong pair bonding ability according to these studies.
And I guess you could classify this as misogyny
Shownu [#8]2-3 is fine. Anything more is just asking for someone with loose head that will turn eventually.
In what age group though? I feel like it’s normal for most 17-18yo already to have 3
Shownu [#8]2-3 is fine. Anything more is just asking for someone with loose head that will turn eventually.
Not that simple, can also be more
It's a personal preference. We shouldn't judge someone with high body count, but I still prefer one below 5. It's not because I think she's a whore if she has more than 5, but statistically she's the type of person that is less committed in developing a relationship and prefer to move on than compromise with each other.
Prathades [#12]It's a personal preference. We shouldn't judge someone with high body count, but I still prefer one below 5. It's not because I think she's a whore if she has more than 5, but statistically she's the type of person that is less committed in developing a relationship and prefer to move on than compromise with each other.
Are these „studies“ credible sources though?
I mean feminists will answer that they know what they want from men more clearly if they have much experience.
And the move in thing, you could also say that women aren’t as dependent on men anymore as they used to be so when there are problems in the relationship they immediately pull out
I mean once u grow up, finding girls with low numbers will be a lot harder
if u find someone with less than 5, great career prospects, genuine personality and is attractive: dont ask no questions and cuff her cuz it only goes downhill from there
also all the kids on vlr giving numbers like 2-3, yeah that's not real life sadly
WACC [#17]I mean once u grow up, finding girls with low numbers will be a lot harder
if u find someone with less than 5, great career prospects, genuine personality and is attractive: dont ask no questions and cuff her cuz it only goes downhill from there
also all the kids on vlr giving numbers like 2-3, yeah that's not real life sadly
Nah it’s not, maybe in Arabic countries or Slavic countries though idk
juho [#19]I don't think its bad to date a girl who has hugged a lot of people i.e has a high body count imo...
Besides in some place hugging someone when you meet them especially among friends is a basic greeting soo I'd personally be fine with it and there's nothing misogynistic about not liking that.
What a funny one! (Not)
Martinao [#20]Nah it’s not, maybe in Arabic countries or Slavic countries though idk
none of these fucks on vlr are from arabic or slavic countries, they're just still in high school and have minimal dating experience
From google
"A body count is the total number of people killed in a particular event. In combat, a body count is often based on the number of confirmed kills, but occasionally only an estimate. Often used in reference to military combat, the term can also refer to any situation involving multiple killings, such as the actions of death squads or serial killers."
SwimmingWeebsPogChamp [#25]From google
"A body count is the total number of people killed in a particular event. In combat, a body count is often based on the number of confirmed kills, but occasionally only an estimate. Often used in reference to military combat, the term can also refer to any situation involving multiple killings, such as the actions of death squads or serial killers."
lol nice info
FoechiGG [#11]Not that simple, can also be more
It's more likely to find a partner for long term with 2-3 than someone with more. Just more likely.
meyournightmare [#3]anyone with high body count is not for the streets, she is for the whole city 🗿🗿🗿
based🗿
Martinao [#10]In what age group though? I feel like it’s normal for most 17-18yo already to have 3
Ur words cut deep anakin
Shownu [#27]It's more likely to find a partner for long term with 2-3 than someone with more. Just more likely.
Bro in western countries 90% of „normal“ women who go out, enjoy their life etc have already slept with 3+ (at least) by the age of 18-20
1-3: cuff
3-5: just another number, cuff
5-10: average, cuff but have precautions
10-20: average girl living her life to fullest, would still cuff
20-30: entering red flag territory, usually underlying personality issues, avoid but cuff if ur nearing ur 30s
30-50: lmao, pump and dump she dont wanna be saved
50+: u better be wearing protection or else enjoy living life with STDs
SwimmingWeebsPogChamp [#25]From google
"A body count is the total number of people killed in a particular event. In combat, a body count is often based on the number of confirmed kills, but occasionally only an estimate. Often used in reference to military combat, the term can also refer to any situation involving multiple killings, such as the actions of death squads or serial killers."
Cool nobody cares
Martinao [#30]Bro in western countries 90% of „normal“ women who go out, enjoy their life etc have already slept with 3+ (at least) by the age of 18-20
Yes it's very easy to get laid but if you are serious then you would naturally avoid more encounters.
Martinao [#4]I should add, if they justify their „preferences“ with like „studies“ about pair bond.
For example that women who have slept with like 30-50 men have a less strong pair bonding ability according to these studies.And I guess you could classify this as misogyny
those studies are actually true, it has been tested and verified. you can look it up. how is it misogyny? this is like saying men are physically stronger than women is misogyny or women are better at taking care of children than men is anti-men.
burritx [#34]In my opnion you should only discuss body counts with a lawyer, I wouldn't want anyone knowing I was behind the 30 murders downtown
To all these guys who bring this murder definition up: just say you’re virgins and have nothing to contribute to this conversation!
Shownu [#36]Yes it's very easy to get laid but if you are serious then you would naturally avoid more encounters.
I know attractive girls with excellent school results, nice character and good attitudes, life balance etc who have slept with 5+ at this age
Martinao [#30]Bro in western countries 90% of „normal“ women who go out, enjoy their life etc have already slept with 3+ (at least) by the age of 18-20
that could justify why men are looking for wives over seas.
raynexo [#40]that could justify why men are looking for wives over seas.
bro u think over seas is any better? I know asian girls in their late 20s they too shy to give a body count but I can pretty much deduce its in the 50s
welcome to real life, where people make love without risk of having babies
Martinao [#14]Are these „studies“ credible sources though?
I mean feminists will answer that they know what they want from men more clearly if they have much experience.
And the move in thing, you could also say that women aren’t as dependent on men anymore as they used to be so when there are problems in the relationship they immediately pull out
thats the problem right there. a relationship involves commitment, willingness and compromises from both sides. the women u are referring to are not willing to work on the relationship, instead will pull out and move on. therefore, a low body count signifies that a women is not of this character and is willing to work together to create a healthy relationship.
raynexo [#37]those studies are actually true, it has been tested and verified. you can look it up. how is it misogyny? this is like saying men are physically stronger than women is misogyny or women are better at taking care of children than men is anti-men.
It’s mysogyny if you only use that on women, because if it works like that men who have slept with 40+ should also have a decreased pair bonding ability no?
Plus there are probably often more reasons behind that I gues
WACC [#32]1-3: cuff
3-5: just another number, cuff
5-10: average, cuff but have precautions
10-20: average girl living her life to fullest, would still cuff
20-30: entering red flag territory, usually underlying personality issues, avoid but cuff if ur nearing ur 30s
30-50: lmao, pump and dump she dont wanna be saved
50+: u better be wearing protection or else enjoy living life with STDs
10 is not red flag for you already? You have some weird standards
WACC [#41]bro u think over seas is any better? I know asian girls in their late 20s they too shy to give a body count but I can pretty much deduce its in the 50s
welcome to real life, where people make love without risk of having babies
that might be the reality around you, there are plenty of women value themselves and have dignity. i know overseas is better than the west as i have multiple known people and first hand experiences.
Martinao [#43]It’s mysogyny if you only use that on women, because if it works like that men who have slept with 40+ should also have a decreased pair bonding ability no?
Plus there are probably often more reasons behind that I gues
yes, its for men too. but it is more profound for a women as women are more emotional than men.
there can be others reasons as well, but if u read the study they have test on a large sample space of people and this is a clear pattern. thus making it true.
laurus [#44]10 is not red flag for you already? You have some weird standards
10 is like just above the sweet spot
means throughout her life she might have had 3-4 exes from high school all the way to graduation
done it a few times with friends or acquaintances
and maybe had a one night encounter, blind date whatnot
I guarantee you most single girls in their early mid 20s are within this range, even the ones that look innocent
guys are the same, maybe even worse
WACC [#48]10 is like just above the sweet spot
means throughout her life she might have had 3-4 exes from high school all the way to graduation
done it a few times with friends or acquaintances
and maybe had a one night encounter, blind date whatnot
I guarantee you most single girls in their early mid 20s are within this range, even the ones that look innocent
guys are the same, maybe even worse
you are only taking for china
laurus [#44]10 is not red flag for you already? You have some weird standards
It becomes reality for u aswell when u grow up.
You should realize this already when u become 18
raynexo [#46]that might be the reality around you, there are plenty of women value themselves and have dignity. i know overseas is better than the west as i have multiple known people and first hand experiences.
there are plenty of women value themselves and have dignity
yeah and where do u meet these girls? Ima need a source cuz Im actually curious
i know overseas is better than the west
pure cope, obviously depends where specifically but if u thinking places like japan u are tripping
Martinao [#51]Bro USA is way worse, you should know this
yes USA is worse, it is the source of this anti social culture.
WACC [#48]10 is like just above the sweet spot
means throughout her life she might have had 3-4 exes from high school all the way to graduation
done it a few times with friends or acquaintances
and maybe had a one night encounter, blind date whatnot
I guarantee you most single girls in their early mid 20s are within this range, even the ones that look innocent
guys are the same, maybe even worse
It's definitely not like this for my country.
I don't believe you're in China, aren't chinese women losing their virginity the oldest and overall don't date that much?
Martinao [#38]To all these guys who bring this murder definition up: just say you’re virgins and have nothing to contribute to this conversation!
To all these guys who bring this murder definition up: just say you’re virgins and have nothing to contribute to this conversation!
laurus [#56]It's definitely not like this for my country.
I don't believe you're in China, aren't chinese women losing their virginity the oldest and overall don't date that much?
Maybe in ur country women have less rights and that’s the reason? Or they keep it more private?
raynexo [#47]yes, its for men too. but it is more profound for a women as women are more emotional than men.
there can be others reasons as well, but if u read the study they have test on a large sample space of people and this is a clear pattern. thus making it true.
this is such a incel talking point that women are more emotional than men when men commit 98% of violent crimes out of rage and anger. lmao
rishu004 [#59]this is such a incel talking point that women are more emotional than men when men commit 98% of violent crimes out of rage and anger. lmao
anger and rage are not the only emotions. You are choosing to deny a reality, you are the incel.
raynexo [#60]anger and rage are not the only emotions. You are choosing to deny a reality, you are the incel.
Men are just as emotional as women
It's just that the dominant emotions for both genders are different. For men, it's anger and rage, for women it's others.
Both genders are just as emotional as each other
Can't believe it's 2023 and people still believe that shit yikes
Moiraine [#62]Men are just as emotional as women
It's just that the dominant emotions for both genders are different. For men, it's anger and rage, for women it's others.
Both genders are just as emotional as each otherCan't believe it's 2023 and people still believe that shit yikes
you have to be delusional. just because we are in 2023 dosent me we deny biology and human nature. women are more emotionally expressive than men, this is biologically and historically proven. yes the dominant emotions are different, but in general the emotional expression and emotional quotient of women is better than men.
WACC [#23]none of these fucks on vlr are from arabic or slavic countries, they're just still in high school and have minimal dating experience
nah there's definitely arabs and slavs
I personally don't understand this issue. Like if youre dating someone the sexual side of it is only a minor part of the relationship, if you get on well with them, really enjoy spending time with them etc etc why does it matter if this one area of the relationship has been explored more by one person. You guys clearly haven't been in any relationships if you think this is a genuine issue, and that the number actually matters in real life. Like if you're so insecure about your own ability that her having previous experience makes it an issue, then thats your problem not your partners.
Just remember than women are people too and they want to fuck as much as you guys do
burritx [#34]In my opnion you should only discuss body counts with a lawyer, I wouldn't want anyone knowing I was behind the 30 murders downtown
Ah, so you have confessed
Trapyy_ [#71]If im trying to build a relationship, i dont really care about body count, i care about how many boyfrieds the girl had, if it is a lot i should problably back up
Honestly true when she already had many relations. Imagine „being in love“ 8 times already at the age of 20
Martinao [#73]Honestly true when she already had many relations. Imagine „being in love“ 8 times already at the age of 20
u just switched sides
soonwookong [#66]nah there's definitely arabs and slavs
I'm Arabian and actually 99% of women here their bodycount is 0 until they get married , nothing here happens before marriage
Escoblo [#77]I'm Arabian and actually 99% of women here their bodycount is 0 until they get married , nothing here happens before marriage
based
Escoblo [#77]I'm Arabian and actually 99% of women here their bodycount is 0 until they get married , nothing here happens before marriage
yeah exactly, and that guy went "arabs no got internet" or smth
soonwookong [#79]yeah exactly, and that guy went "arabs no got internet" or smth
lol what a stereotype
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