No, I did not miss the meaning of the tweet, it's you who choose to rephrase it
Normal guy wouldn't even tweet anything like this "queen, king" bs
holy shit i’m gonna explain the tweet to you 1 more time
treat your girlfriend with respect and care (like a queen) if you expect her to do the same back to you (like a king)
he’s advocating for healthy relationships and even though he worded it cringe in an attempt to make a joke, there’s nothing “nice guy” about that.