i never said it was a 1-1 ratio that they become it. but thats the way it usually starts. why wait until theyre older to tell them, no its not a good thing to do that. you have to teach them as a kid lol. but youre saying its normal. you dont know if hes joking or not. it was entirely random and out of the blue in that conversation. how is that not credible? is it an overreaction to not want rape jokes to be normal? really. i dont think his ex took as a joke. its not a funny thing lol.