daily month of reaffirmation

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kalayav_n

a lot of people often cloud their own personality, they don't even listen to themselves.

ask your self these questions,

when was the last time you ever had alone time with your thoughts?
when was the last time you consciously praised or awarded your self?

true happiness comes from self improvement, don't ever compare your self to anyone else because if everyone else was the same. everyone would be living the same life, there is a reason you are different. it's what makes you, you.

daily goals for this month:

find something charitable or close to it, can range from visiting hospitals to volunteer or helping out with your mother/father with any chores.
being conscious in public, hold doors for people; move a stick that doesn't even seem dangerous but hey maybe it helped save someone from slipping and tripping.
find something cool and exciting, a new book or video game; could be new video of your favorite player

stay healthy, if you don't care about yourself no body else will so take care of your self!

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IHaveAnswers

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I evaluate myself daily and its always one thing ''how do you manage to get dumber everyday" and then I sleep

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kalayav_n

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change that man, instead when you wake up everyday ask your self; "i am alive and well today, and i will do everything to improve"

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Nah I am doing fine, it's just my self esteem is quite shit, it's either too much or too little

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kalayav_n

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oh, what do you think is the root for that? i also suffer from that but i find it because im always very paranoid and conscious about how people view me(still working on it)

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No idea lol, will update you when I find out myself

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kalayav_n

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ok have good day

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when was the last time you ever had alone time with your thoughts?

i want to escape from the thoughts

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kalayav_n

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no, those thoughts literally shaping your life. even if you think your "escaping it", subconsciously they are changing you and making you worse.

heres a full podcast with all the information brother, listen to it whenever your doing homework or working out.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-wIt_WsJGfw

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Sidyon

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Preach brother preach, let the people know

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kalayav_n

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of course brother, information and knowledge is power

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y0yster

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Hey Pastor help me. I think I've autism.

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kalayav_n

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pastor is crazy im not even christian

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Mulla ?

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kalayav_n

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wth is a mulla

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y0yster

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Nvm buddy. You are one of the very few people here on VLR who spreads positivity like me. Be kind be me.

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kalayav_n

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im as confused as a rock but sure positivity is the way to go

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Gemiknight

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W advice. I’ll keep it in mind and try to do some of the stuff listed

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kalayav_n

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ofc brother much love, also feel free to add some of your own goals to it as well dont have to copy mine

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Wazeee99

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Idk why but I always end up comparing myself to others , I do mistakes a fucking lot of them and promise i won't do them again only to again commit the same ones, i always somehow end up seeing how good others have become and how bad I have become, feels like I am at a standstill and have no confidence about whether i will be really successful in life.

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It's kind of normal to compare urself to others to measure urself. That's human nature b8 the whole point is to focus on urself and to find out what you can do better to improve urself. The more you focus on others and less on urself you will be fcked in no time. Hope u do good and get better than ever. Focus on God and urself.

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kalayav_n

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thats okay bro, think of it this way. alot of people post on social media their "life" but its far from that. every girl on instagram posts her beautiful face but thats actually not her, its most 99% filters makeup and edits.

let me propose a question to you, if someone was so happy; their driving their new car or theyre eating this great food. would they be so happy to feel like "oh i need to post this to show im so happy". alot of people just do it for reaffirmation/attention/money. so dont be fooled by others and how they are "living" because you are gonna waste time. improve your life and be obsessed with you.

as for the mistakes and committing them, honestly you admitting and being conscious of making those mistakes is already step 1 done. next you need to understand why you are making those mistakes, is it because something is influencing you or are you feeling the desire. once you find the problem, keep trying to find solutions for it. if its influences from instagram or some website, delete it and block the site. babies don't learn to walk within 1 hour, no pilot learns to drive in 1 day and rome wasn't built in 1 week. patience is key, keep trying and step by step you will eliminate the bad habit or mistake.

i hope this helped you brother <3

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Wazeee99

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Dude this comparison isnt hardly from social media it's more from real life, like my classmates

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It's normal but as you get older u will realise it is meaningless.

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kalayav_n

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even in real life, you really shouldn't compare yourself with others; its really gonna ruin how you think. maybe compare yourself in a way thinking like oh i want to look that healthy or wow that man is out reading books i want to spend quality time like that but never say oh wow i wanna be like HIM or i wanna be just like them. its kinda bad, be like you; findout who you are yk