trans people help pls

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natalie

i've been kinda struggling for a while with this but i wanna know how to feel more trans, not as much like externally so i guess it's not dysphoria but i wanna feel internally more trans so i can feel better about myself
do yall have this feeling too and what do you do to help combat it, for context im 16, mtf without hrt (my parents say i can't start until 21), and i've been out to my family/school for about a month or so but i've known for longer

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Arun777

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real talk if im being honest, you would prolly get more help or info somewhere else, not on this platform

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natalie

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maybe, idk where i'd go and it seems like there's a decent amount of us on vlr

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Arun777

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surely there's reddit forums and communities that help better imo, vlr is kinds toxic and ppl unfortunately dont even know what hrt is or what ur talking about

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natalie

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i'd rather cut off both my legs with a box cutter than open reddit

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RealBallKnower

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Why combat it? Just join it while you at it

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themaniel

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I'm not trans so I don't really have any advice but you got this queen 🔥

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natalie

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thank you themaniel i appreciate it

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PandaZ

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is 21 the legal age for that? I thought it was 18

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natalie

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it's 18 yeah but my parents are making me wait until 21

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MrBlooBloom

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you should try and join a local trans-support group or smth and see if you can get in touch with real people who have experience with this kind of things. Your situation seems pretty common accross the "trans experience" but as cis people with no experience of such things there ain't much that we can tell you besides looking for advices somwhere where people know more ball than we do.
Good luck, you got it