Does anyone deal with this? I feel like I have nothing to be depressed about, I've got a healthy life, nice family, good people around me, I feel like I have nothing negative in my life that could make me feel so demotivated and negative about everything. I know people will say: "why are you asking here" and "go to a therapist", but I feel so empty sometimes. Is it even depression?
Edit: sorry I didn't mean to put it in general discussion
Commonw_pro [#2]VALORANT is the reason of depression
Trust me leave as soon as possible
I spent around 3,000 bucks already to leave lil bro.
sometimes it happens to me, in my case its because my days are too repetitive on weekdays, i wake up at the same hour, i eat almost the same things, i go to uni, i come back, i watch/play val or other games, and every day from monday to friday, maybe it happens the same to you
because im happy with my family, friends, and where and how i live, the only thing that depresses me is watching heretics on vct but its all good.
Simp4S0m [#3]You are satisfied with life, stress free? Idk if it’s depression but it feels like what you’re experiencing is boredom. I feel the same. I have nothing to be stressed about. I have a job, pay my bills but I’m bored kekw I’m not sure about yours though
Yeah, it might be it. I'm sure I'll get through it somehow, but I just need to find something.
Commonw_pro [#2]VALORANT is the reason of depression
Trust me leave as soon as possible
spoken like a true chad. Op leave this godforsaken game and Social media for a while You'll start to have fun in life. Maybe even get a few bitches.
danii1 [#12]Yeah, it might be it. I'm sure I'll get through it somehow, but I just need to find something.
Yup. I can’t speak for severely depressed people but if it’s depression due to boredom, you just gotta find things to distract yourself. If you don’t have any purpose in life, that’s fine too. As long as you have a stress free job and pay your bills you shouldn’t stress too much about what your purpose is. But ofc it’s also important to seek for what you want to do. Good luck lil bro <3
Simp4S0m [#14]Yup. I can’t speak for severely depressed people but if it’s depression due to boredom, you just gotta find things to distract yourself. If you don’t have any purpose in life, that’s fine too. As long as you have a stress free job and pay your bills you shouldn’t stress too much about what your purpose is. But ofc it’s also important to seek for what you want to do. Good luck lil bro <3
Thanks a lot, having someone to talk to it about or just hear their inputs puts me at ease. Appreciate it :)
SeizVlr [#6]find a new hobby, commons ones are video games or cooking both are easy and would take long times to complete objectives thus curing your boredom.
why boredom ? cause it seems that its moreso boredom that depression or boredom causing depression
Hobbies are something I've never really had, well here I am needing one hahah.
Faraday [#9]yeah it can feel like that sometimes for everyone, like your just floating through life
depression isn't a trophy, it's something you get diagnosed with so don't stress about the labels
Don't make depression a part of your identity else it'll be impossible to improve
Thank you, I just labeled it depression cuz I don't really know what "it" is you know? But I appreciate your reply. Also I've had problems looking for my identity in the past, might be a part of it still.
dex_ [#11]sometimes it happens to me, in my case its because my days are too repetitive on weekdays, i wake up at the same hour, i eat almost the same things, i go to uni, i come back, i watch/play val or other games, and every day from monday to friday, maybe it happens the same to you
because im happy with my family, friends, and where and how i live, the only thing that depresses me is watching heretics on vct but its all good.
I guess sometimes it does get repetitive, also I'm sure Heretics will bounce with their new player being added or whatever. Good luck and thank you.
danii1 [#18]I guess sometimes it does get repetitive, also I'm sure Heretics will bounce with their new player being added or whatever. Good luck and thank you.
mixwell went to benjyfishy stream and tried to poach him as a joke, but who knows
I kinda have the same thing except i have a little problems in life, feels like nothing can make me happy, even if i had trilion dollars, it wouldnt make me happy, feels like happiness is something you cannot buy and happiness is something that not everyone has and for some reason i feel empty, ive been diagnosed with depression and generalised anxiety disorder but im doing ok, i think
First of all, I don't think most of us will reach a stage where you are satisfied with everything in your life. There will always be regrets and more.
Secondly, how do you find happiness or let's say peace? I didn't think too much about it but i believe it is something spiritual. You have to build yourself an ethical system or embrace it from a religion that you like. Follow it and try to be a good human considering there is no absolute good or absolute bad for humans. We are trying to fight our demons, in the middle ground. If you can live according to your believes an ethics i think you will be okay.
I believe everyone lives with anxiety, boredom and depression or lived with it at some part of their life. We will live in stressful times. I am also rn not in a good state because of some reasons i don't want to mention. But if i can peak somewhere or try to get better everyday i believe eventually it will all be good.
Finally I don't think there will ever be ultimate peace or relaxation in this world. You either work hard everyday or don't give a shit and live a miserable life. Most of us are kind of in between
danii1 [#16]Hobbies are something I've never really had, well here I am needing one hahah.
Some on the easier side would be achieving a higher rank on your favorite game maybe or setting yourself objectives on some games you play
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